Explain the concept: "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar."


6



I highly recommend you read The Crane Wife by CJ Houser.


15, 17, 19, 21



“There is no such thing as a “bad kid” - just angry, hurt, tired, scared, confused, impulsive ones expressing their feelings


7, 12



Ask them “what would it take for you to_____?” (Keep your room clean, stay on top of your homework, feel like you had more control in this situation, etc.) Instead of nagging or lecturing, just ask.


13



• you can't make anyone love you • not every relationship is meant to last forever • sometimes two good people can make one bad relationship.


16-20



Painful or unpleasant emotions can’t grow if you stay in the present. (Easy way to do this is to focus on your breathing.)


10, 13, 16, 21



Live a life of dignity and joy.


14, 21



Treat your subordinates as if you’ll be working for them someday.


21



You are always responsible for how you act, no matter what you’re feeling. (Or whether you’re drunk or in any way impaired.) Hammer this point home for the next 10 years!


13



Grandpa used to keep a hundred dollar bill stashed discreetly in his wallet “for emergencies.”


17



Give them the book Starfish by Lisa Fipps.


12, 14



Better to be a little hungry than too full.


15, 21



Watch the western “1883”.


13



Some people think the world owes THEM. They have a backwards. We are servants. How can we best serve?


12-21



Violent thunderstorms can be dangerous. Avoid driving or being out in severe weather: car accidents, downed trees, high winds, lightning, flash floods, etc. are all potentially just don’t take your safety for granted if the weather is severe, stay sheltered unless you absolutely positively have to be out and about.


12-14, 16, 21



Watch the news together. Local and national. Today Show has both of mornings are easier than evenings.


12, 13, 14, 15



Sometimes, no matter how great a thing is it can’t make up for what it’s not.


14, 19, 21



The Buddhists say “life is suffering.” I think struggle might be a better word. Struggle is unavoidable, and it would do us good to stop expecting otherwise. And yes, everybody experiences pain and loss, etc. but I don’t believe we should expect our lives to be full of suffering.


17, 21



The universe is cheering for you!


14, 16, 18, 20



Consider what you value. Act accordingly.


10, 14, 17, 20



Send them outside with an age-appropriate pair of scissors and have them “give the grass a haircut.” Fine motor skills!


2-4



Make a deal: flying lessons IF he takes dancing lessons. A man has got to know how to dance! In fact, tack on some other prerequisites like good grades and responsible behavior


16



Parent the way you want your children to behave. Compassion, patience. Loving.


1, 2, 3, 4



Universal Studios


12-18



It's a skill to learn how to love people the way they need to be loved. I highly recommend reading the Five Love Languages.


18, 21



Watch YouTube video on how to administer an Epi-pen injection. You have friends with allergies you may need to know how to do this.


11-15



Teach them how to eat a chicken wing in one bite


12



Give books. Inscribe them. Just a line or two can turn a good book into a treasure. Great for any occasion.


17



Practice staying calm under pressure. The pop-up game “Perfection” is a fun way.


10, 12, 15, 17, 21



You don’t owe me a thing. Live your life as you will. I will always love you.


18, 21