Assume any email or text you send will be distributed.


12, 15



Birthday traditions: 1) Plant something every year. 2) Birthday interview on camera or voice recording.


5



Check out O.School Originals for sex-ed resources.


14



Practice being embarrassed. Tell embarrassing stories. Help them learn how to deal with the sensation.


9



“Anger is a wonderful catalyst but a terrible companion.” - Brene Brown


15, 21



Learn how to sail together


12-15



A red brow line is an early sleepiness cue. If you notice the skin around baby’s eyebrows seems red, they’re ready for a nap.


Infant-1



Try using “No doesn’t tell me your needs” when toddler / little kid disobeys. “Were you trying to be funny? Do you need a minute?”


3



Open a Bank Account


8-12



I want you to remember that for the first three years of your life I couldn’t take a poop without you on my lap. So there will be no shirking hugs from Mom now that you’re a teenager. xoxo


14



Camp Arena Stage


8



Hold fast to what is good. (1 Thessalonians 5:21)


10, 15, 21



My ballet teacher used to punish us by making us sit on the floor and hold our arms up. It hurts! But you learn how to sit with pain. You learn how to endure and how to use your mind to make your muscles really don’t want to do.


14, 20



Visit Aunt Janet in Morehead City for Seafood Festival in October


2-99



No matter how successful you become you’re still expected to act with integrity and respect.


14, 18, 21



If you want people to believe you, trust you and be able to depend on you, then you must have integrity. Integrity means that you tell the truth, don’t deceive or cheat, you keep your word and you pitch in to help with little things and big things without having to be asked. Who are the people you know who have integrity? Do you want to be a man of integrity?


13, 17



Put down your phone and be in the moment. Teach this. Model this.


7



Guard your health and fitness as if it were your most valuable possession. (It is.)


14, 17, 21



Small joys are what gets you through big grief.


14, 18, 21



Rain, snow or sleet...Always return the shopping cart to the proper spot in the parking lot.


17



Google the “tea metaphor” for a discussion about consent.


17



The Language of the Universe: A Visual Exploration of Mathematics https://www.amazon.com/dp/1536215058/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_R83V51QC1RGYVEZ4ESMQ


8



"Tough times don't last. Tough people do."


11-14



Never make a decision from a place of hopelessness.


14, 16, 21



If you get comfortable telling little lies it will be easier to tell big lies. Tell the truth, even on small matters. (Except if your friends ask if they look fat. Then it’s okay to lie!)


13, 18, 21



You can (and should) pray for help. But remember, you have to do your part too. Depending on the situation it could be a little or a lot, but don’t just sit back and expect to be rescued. Moses had to dip his toe in the Red Sea before God parted it. Ask for help, but do your part.


14, 21



Crushes are fine but I beg you not to waste your time and energy obsessing about someone. Really it’s just a way to hide, to feel something without risking anything. F that. Turn your attention to something creative, constructive or productive. Make art, train for a race, volunteer or get a second job. Discover WHAT you love. Pursue that and your people will be there.


15, 17, 20, 21



Awesome game we did at preschool - play I SPY. Try with objects or emotions, such as "I spy something sad" or "I spy something joyful." To help him learn empathy.


3-5



Read article about Digital Learning/ transitioning to doing homework on a computer. http://community.today.com/parentingteam/post/it-doesnt-have-to-stay-on-the-screen


10



Favorite bible verse: Psalm 143:8 “Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have placed my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life.”


15