Give your all on the job, from your first day to your last day there. If you’re all caught up on your work help someone else with theirs.


17, 21



Dress to people will listen to you, not look at you. (This is especially true at school and work.)


15, 18, 21



“You will encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.” -Maya Angelou


17



Sioux Nation quote: No one heals himself by wounding another.


16



Choosing to take the easy way out will create a life that’s difficult, disappointing and dull. Don’t shy away from hard work. Mind, body, spirit, relationships, community engagement, serving others - all of these things require a ton of effort on your part. But the more you choose to invest your time and energy into what is important to you, the more your life will take shape. Take the easy way out and you’ll see things start to disintegrate. Hard work makes you who you are.


13, 16, 21



Challenge: Memorize and recite The New Colossus by Emma Lazarus.


10



That trope “everything happens for a reason” is, I think, b.s. But I absolutely agree that you can find meaning in anything good or bad.


17



Get up early on a Saturday and go downtown. See how fun it is to be up before the rest of the world.


7-9



Discuss prescription (and OTC) medications. Doctors prescribe or recommend these medicines, they’re not for fun and should be taken seriously. Discuss how medicines are obtained, never shared, which is dangerous and illegal. Emphasize the risk of dependence.


10



Getting dumped from a bad relationship or fired from a job that’s killing you is kind of like pooping your pants: Horrifying...but also a little bit of relief. Keep your perspective and you’ll be fine. xoxo.


20



I hope you find a partner with who are your most authentic self, and who you love for who they genuinely are.


15, 21



Look into going to college abroad. Research international universities. Spain, Netherlands, etc.


15, 16



Everything not saved will be lost. This is true for documents in Word and in life.


16



Watch the political conventions every election year. Listen and decide for yourself.


17, 18, 21



“If you don’t know what hurts me, how can you say you love me?” From a story told by Rabbi Levi Yitzhak ....Do you know what causes him pain or anxiety? What he’s afraid of? In an age-appropriate way....Talk about our fears and the things that hurt us. He will see it’s normal to have fear and pain, and he will learn he can come to me with anything that troubles him.


8



Invest in a laminator, a label maker and a glue gun. You’ll be glad you did!


5



Stay put, don’t wonder if lost when we hike.


2, 3, 5



People don’t abandon people they love, they abandon people they’re using.


19, 21



Life doesn’t need to be perfect to be beautiful.


20



Go as a family to local high school musical productions.


9-13



1

Book: “victory. Stand!” By Tommie Smith


14



When someone gets upset for seemingly no reason maybe it’s not something you did or said but something you simply triggered. Try not to get defensive. Either gently remove yourself from the situation or if you want to engage with them just ask “what did I trigger?” Or “what story are you telling yourself right now?” Then, just listen.


20



Never resist a generous impulse.


9, 12, 19



What problem do you want to solve in the world?


1Infant-14



Just because you love someone doesn’t mean they feel loved by you. Meet the kids where they are.


2, 9, 21



Honesty without kindness is brutality. Kindness without honesty is manipulation. (That said, when anyone asks if that outfit makes them look fat, the answer is “you look perfect.”)


20



Talk about how choices become habits. Habits can become addictions. Describe how pathways are literally dug into the brain and it's very hard to change them once those paths are made.


13-16



2

Practice road-rage roll playing. People are NUTS! It's hard to imagine how you'll react when someone gets aggressive with you. Let's practice staying calm when someone is shouting and in your face.


15-17



Make a Shutterfly book for each year and give it to them on their birthday.


5-18



Name five women who contributed to our country’s history.


8, 13, 16