In 2024 there’s a medical test to screen for cancer that involves collecting one’s poo and sending it off to the lab. They just called me to tell me they canceled my test due to a clerical error on the order. I was so mad. The thought of doing that poo test again was freaking me out. Why didn’t the flunky who handles the specimens call before they pitched it? Then it dawned on me: it’s someone’s *job* to process poo specimens. Probably hundreds a day. It’s okay they didn’t stop to call and straighten out my test.perspective!!


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Sometimes we outgrow relationships. It’s no one’s fault. It’s okay to move on. You’ve grown…Don’t abandon your healthier self for a relationship.


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George Lucas’ documentaries on WWI, Russian Revolution, etc.YouTube Lucas Films.


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You can forgive someone without speaking to them. Or you can move on without forgiving. Closure isn’t necessary to moving on. The only thing necessary is to move. Move your body, change your perspective, go on a trip, go to a new coffee shop, just move.


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Focus on being interesting (and genuinely interested) rather than focusing on being popular.


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Don’t confuse impulsive with courageous.


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Harm springs from excess.


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They are looking for your support, not your solutions. Applies to all ages.


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It’s when the sh*t hits the fan that real discipleship begins.


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Some people have more money than sense. Just because u can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it.


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Watch the news together. Local and national. Today Show has both of mornings are easier than evenings.


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make your own latch board / "busy board" for plenty of hours of learning and entertainment. Find lots of great ideas on Pinterest.


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I’m cool with “C”s. Do good work but don’t put too much pressure yourself.


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Give them marshmallows to suck on when they get a sore throat. Takes away the pain!


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Paradoxical Commandments by Kent Keith.


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Intimacy is a feeling of safety. To let yourself be seen, touched, known, without defenses.


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Girls: does he put in the effort even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable for him?


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There's an old saying that goes something like "Don't focus on how big your problems are, focus instead on how big your God is." On a certain level, that's way too simple, even trite. But without discounting the real pain you might be experiencing in a moment of crisis, I encourage you to embrace that sentiment. You can't forget about the problem, but you can change your focus, and decide to cling to the goodness of the Lord.


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Never say anything behind someone's back that you wouldn't say to their face.


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Don’t play hard to get. Be hard to earn.


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Train for a mini-triathlon together as a family this year.


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The "work" in "relationships take work" should be like the "work" it takes to go to the beach. “Sure, you gotta pack food, beverages, drive there, park, and set up... But you get to the beach


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None of us should ever have to apologize for being who we are.


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Being numb is not the same thing as being happy.


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Summer Olympics for neighborhood kids. Create events in all kinds of sports, games and skills. Mix it up so the littler ones and the less athletically inclined have something they can succeed at too.


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Find what you love Do what you love Be what you love Live what you love Love what you love and never look back ... Except to love.


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So you want to be a writer- then write. Anything. Play around with it. Journal. Fiction, non-fiction, biography, obits, blogs, plays, tv pilots, whatever. You will probably suck at it. Keep writing. Write more and more. You will get better, you’ll find your flow. This w


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The things we invite to protect us take their job seriously. They will not abandon the watch without a fight to the death. So be careful, very careful about what u invite as armor. Please don’t place your trust in drugs, alcohol, food, gambling, working, disconnecting, etc. Put your trust in that which is creative, honest, loving, beautiful, interesting, inspiring, challenging or peaceful. These things make much better bodyguards, and they will never turn on you.


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