Be extra careful when you’re parking or pulling out of a driveway. It’s hard to see little kids or pets.


16



"Love is nothing more and nothing less than relentlessly showing up for your people." - Glennon Doyle


18-21



Gambling is designed to be seductive- Everything about casinos and online gambling sites is about getting you to hand over your cash. It’s a scam. Don’t fall for it!


15, 18



Golf lessons. Grampa loved golf, if he were here he would have taught you himself.


9



When the poop hits the fan, that's when real discipleship begins.


15-18



Plan trip to Outside Lands music festival at Golden Gate Park


17



Play up your strengths. What are your strengths? What are you really good at or love doing?


13, 17, 21



Have fun at parties! Mingle, dance, participate in the good energy. But if there’s drinking to excess, someone needs to be lifeguard. Young people don’t know how dangerous alcohol can be. And sadly, someone needs to be bodyguard. Men often try to take advantage of intoxicated women.


14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19



Practice staying calm under pressure. The pop-up game “Perfection” is a fun way.


10, 12, 15, 17, 21



Book: “victory. Stand!” By Tommie Smith


14



“Things are not perfect, because life is not TV and we are real people with scarred, worried hearts. But it’s amazing a lot of the time.” - Anne Lamott


14



Keep screen time to a minimum.


2-8



I read this quote in a blog when my oldest was little: "You will never be more needed or more loved than you are right now. You will long for the days when your kids were little." So true. These years are exhausting, but hang in there. You are their sun and moon.


2



Name five women who contributed to our country’s history.


8, 13, 16



Shelter, water, Fire, food. (Outdoor survival priorities.)


12, 17



Go to Montgomery County Fair


5-14



Pool safety- never touch equipment and always have a grownup present when swimming.


3-8



Anger diffuser game to help better understand coping skills when angry


8-18



Assume any email or text you send will be distributed.


12, 15



Wintergreen snow sledding trip.


6



Practice your signature


13



When disciplining remember: First acknowledge the emotion, then address the behavior.


2-4, 13, 15



Plan a trip to Disney this year.


6



Read The Invisible Boy by Trudy Ludwig.


4



Sometimes the only thing you can do is to show up. Be there.


13, 15, 17, 21



Be discerning about your sources of information. Some red flags: Too good to be true. Get rich quick. Chosen race. Any race or group blamed for societal problems. Fear of change. Threats of real or metaphysical harm (I.e. $@!#%) or bribes with reward.


12, 14, 16. 18, 21



Give your all on the job, from your first day to your last day there. If you’re all caught up on your work help someone else with theirs.


17, 21



Some books you loved when you were a toddler: Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, Horton Hatches an Egg, Room on the Broom, Gruffalo.


2-4