The kindest person in the room may not necessarily be the smartest. But the cruelest person is always the dumbest.


10, 15, 21



Don’t bring a complaint without offering a solution.


17, 19, 21



Give him a copy of The Secret Lives of Great Composers by Elizabeth Lunday.


14



Staying calm is 90% of the battle. Practice.


13, 15, 18, 21



Sometimes there’s nothing you can say or do to help someone feel better. In times like that, just make sure you don’t make it worse.


14, 18, 21



Don’t play hard to get. Be hard to earn.


16, 21



Listen to The Moth (storytelling) together.


15



Let's all go on a "complaining diet." See how long we can go without a complaint for a weekend. Repeat often.


9-15



Keep stories about younger years to tell them later: You used to call yellow “lellow” etc. Ten years from now you think you’ll remember this stuff but you won’t.


2



You’re not obsessed with that person you’re just hyper fixating. It’s ADHD.


12, 16, 19, 21



Teen years are a whole other ballgame. Find a community and stay up with trends and news. Check out the website Raising Teens Today.


12



Let's find little ways to practice self-control and build that muscle.


11



1

Jazz in the Garden free outdoor concerts at National Gallery of Art. Fridays during summer months.


7



Misquoting someone here: “It’s not about getting everything you want, it’s about giving everything you have.” Stuff will never satisfy. Pouring yourself into something heart and soul will.


16, 21



Failures are part of life. Feel free to fail. But behave with honor. Never do anything to tarnish your good name.


14, 18



Go on a cruise


12-15



Start a vegetable garden.


7



Rent kayaks.


14-16



Let them borrow your calm. Little ones (grownups too) sometimes just need to freak out a bit. Stay there. Be near. Don’t judge or even help. Just be there, and stay calm. Your loving energy is all they need as they work through it themselves. Keep them safe but other than that don’t help or advise unless they ask.


2-6, 17, 21



Things are rarely black and white. Most situations (and all people) are complex. A nuanced approach is necessary to understand them. You can’t learn - or love, if you’re judging.


17



Research says working with your hands is good for your mind and spirit. Even if it’s just folding laundry or doing yard work. Let’s find a hobby u might like working with your hands.


12



Action is the antithesis of anxiety.


18



Anything you wear on purpose is fashion.


14, 19, 21



Learn what triggers you. It’s probably just two or three things. Work on your issues


14, 18. 21



Life is hard. But it's not so hard you can't figure it out. You're going to be fine. xoxo


11-21



Don’t use a bad word when you can use a good word.


10



Help him practice having tense conversations without getting a tone of voice.


15



Practice your signature


13