Devotion is revealed by behavior, not intention.


15, 17, 21



Golf lessons. Grampa loved golf, if he were here he would have taught you himself.


9



Never pretend o know what you don’t know. But you can bluff your way through a lot of interviews just by doing a 30 minute Google search. Research the company, the industry, its governing body, key terms, awards, criticism, etc. Check out their social media.


17, 19, 21



Check your ego and question your motives. Are you in it for the right reasons or because of how it would look if you weren’t? Do you feel like you need to be a hero or the smartest one in the room? If the answer is yes I would strongly recommend that you get right with yourself.


13, 16, 19, 21



Imagine a hundred different lives. Try a dozen of them. Fail at most of them. That’s part of what your twenties are for. Challenge yourself. Challenge your assumptions. Change your perspective. Grow.


20



Before a play date or sleepover ask the parent “Are there any unlocked guns in the house?”


6-9



ADHD hack for studying or projects- Leave yourself notes about where you left off.


13, 21



Have dinner guests sign the under side of the dining room table. Let the kids’ friends sign too - or have their own version of a guestbook - the inside of a cabinet or the basement door, etc.


5, 12-14



“Your soul is more magnificent, beautiful, and gigantic than you can possibly imagine.” From short story “The Egg” by Andy Weir


1Infant-21



“God is gentle and loving. He desires you to have a deep sense of safety in His love.” - paraphrasing Henri Nouwen


16



Surround yourself with people and ideas that inspire you and captivate you. Life is too short for destructive relationships.


13, 18



Don’t waste your life’s purpose worrying about what other people think about you.


12, 15, 21



Poems are great tools to help them to read, recite, practice handwriting, and illustrate.


7



People want to be heard. Listen to your clients, even when they're upset. Don't make excuses or anything, just let them talk. They mostly just want to be heard. Once they're calm, you can solve the problem.


21



Concussion testing - baseline


15



“You will use up everything you got trying to give people what they want.” —- Nina Simone


17



Build a treehouse together


8



Home is where they love you.


13, 17, 21



You’ll miss me when I’m gone, but if I did my job right you won’t need me.


21



Keep stuff on hand for guests. Be ready to be a good host / hostess at any moment.


16-21



1

You tackled a big project and you're wondering if it will be a success. Ask yourself: "Was I fair?" Was I kind?" " Did I put in the work?" If the answer is yes, then rest well, no matter what the outcome. If the answer is no, go back and fix it.


17



Learn to recognize invitations from the Lord - invitations to look at beauty. Invitations for compassion, for learning and for love.


9-15



Find what you love Do what you love Be what you love Live what you love Love what you love and never look back ... Except to love.


19



Rain, snow or sleet...Always return the shopping cart to the proper spot in the parking lot.


17



Encourage creativity, science and engineering: Make a craft station / work bench for projects. Fill it with all kinds of art supplies, engineering kits, tools, pegboard, etc. Stock safety equipment like goggles and make sure the area has good lighting. Lots of ideas on Pinterest, etc.


8



1

Turn on the closed captions on tv. Reading them is almost unconscious. Even better, set the audio to a language other than English and turn on English captions.


4-9



Educate About Risks of Driving


12-15



“You don’t get what you deserve. You get what you negotiate.” - name escapes me


15, 19, 21



Partnership or pride…pick one.


21