Remember: “C’s get degrees.” Don’t tie yourself in knots over grades.


17, 18



Read “Attack of the Black Rectangles” by Amy Sarid King.


12



Look into going to college abroad. Research international universities. Spain, Netherlands, etc.


15, 16



This! Your energy is beautiful and precious. Don’t waste it on people who are $@!#% bent on negativity. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRxcJWem/


16



Don’t offer them advice until you ask questions: What does a good outcome here look like for you? How much energy are you willing to put into this? Do you feel like you’re being asked to sacrifice a part of who you are if you do this? Is the fear you’re feeling maybe just that initial reaction we all get when something is new and unfamiliar? Stuff like that. Mostly they just need help understanding themselves and encouragement to stay true to themselves.


4, 7, 12, 15, 18, 21



“Courage is cheaper than Channel. It works better too.” - Scott Galloway


14, 15, 16, 21



Poems are great tools to help them to read, recite, practice handwriting, and illustrate.


7



An album is like a book, meant to be taken as a whole. It tells a story, has its own vibe. Let’s listen to an album together every week.


12



At the hospital? Always confirm your name and date of birth and why you’re there.


16



Water park for fifth birthday


10



“If you want to be beautiful, make beautiful choices.” - (Greek philosopher whose name I can’t remember.)


10, 13, 17, 21



“Anger is the part of yourself that loves you the most. It knows when you are being mistreated, neglected, or disrespected. It signals that you have to take a step out of a place that doesn’t do you justice. It makes you aware that you need to leave a room, a job, a relationship, and old patterns that don’t work for you anymore. Learn to listen to your anger and make it your best friend. Then it’ll leave.” -author unknown


11, 14, 16, 19, 21



“God is gentle and loving. He desires you to have a deep sense of safety in His love.” - paraphrasing Henri Nouwen


16



Some men think if they just act like a total $@!#% then people will assume they’re uber intelligent. Just because someone is scary it doesn’t mean he’s scary smart.


15, 21



Difficult conversations: Break-ups, layoffs, etc. happen. Practice delivering bad news and getting bad news.


15-21



Human creativity is nature manifest in us.


15, 21



Resist the urge to give unsolicited advice. Wait…this entire thing is unsolicited advice!


15



Start a vegetable garden.


7



If it costs you your peace it’s too expensive.


19



Plan a neighborhood "Winter Olympics" for snow days. Create indoor and outdoor events.


8



Just love them. With all your might, them for who they are, and where they are. Forget about the other stuff.


15



It’s not fair to resent someone for being who they are. We can all improve ourselves, learn and grow etc. but we should never ask anyone to change who they are in exchange for our love. And that goes both ways - never change who you are to fit someone else’s idea of who you should be. Be open to ways to can improve yourself of course, but surround yourself with people who love you for you and encourage you to be your genuine self and who want the best for you.


12, 15, 18, 21



Play up your strengths. What are your strengths? What are you really good at or love doing?


13, 17, 21



Don’t worry if they’re not listening to what you say...They watch what you do. They study it.


13



Watch film “Radio” (2003) and talk about being brave. Teach them that doing what’s right takes courage.


8



When someone hurts us or REALLY pisses us off... We have to pray for them. It’s hard to stay mad at someone you’re praying for.


8-18



If you’ve never dressed a newborn before, an easy way to get the hang of it is to lay the outfit flat on the bed and then place the baby on top of it. Tuck her little arms and legs inside one at a time, then zip or snap them in. Done!


Infant



Read everything Brene Brown ever wrote.


20



It’s okay to not understand things. Just be sure the only place your ignorance leads you is to education.


15, 19



I’d rather you be brave than perfect. Take chances. Fail, then pick yourself up and keep going.


18