Grandpa never wore a watch. (This was way before cell phones existed.) Still, he always knew what time it was, and he was never, ever late.


14



Plants eat sunlight. Eat mostly plants.


14, 17, 21



Defending yourself from a bear: NEVER run from or turn your back on a bear. Remember the rhyme: “If it’s black, fight back. If it’s brown hit the ground, if it’s white like Similac, frozen bear gonna send u back.” - Mamadou Ndiaye


16



Actions have consequences- so does inaction. Avoiding a problem or decision is not an effective solution.


18



Changed behavior is the only real apology.


15



I don’t buy Mallomars. But Santa does. Another Christmas stocking tradition is chicken flickin. Rubber chickens you shoot like rubber bands.


5, 21



Make sure you always have Uber gift cards on hand for friends, emergencies or whatever.


15-18



When you’re at home in your own skin you invite people to be at home in theirs too.


14, 20



You may end up being a big shot, Good for you! But check yourself. The good lord wasn't above washing his friends' dirty feet so please don't feel like you're above any task that needs to be done. Enjoy your success but stay humble.


20



Life is hard. But it's not so hard you can't figure it out. You're going to be fine. xoxo


11-21



“Courage is cheaper than Channel. It works better too.” - Scott Galloway


14, 15, 16, 21



Be kind. Be brave.


5-10



Are you proud of the work you did today? Were you respectful and kind? Did you tell the truth and look out for the little ones? If so, I’m happy. I don’t care one bit about grades.


5



Keep your pants on until you (and your partner) are at least 18. Keep your pants on if you or your partner are drunk. Keep your pants on if you or your partner are not 100% enthusiastic about going farther.


15



Best take on parenting: “My kid is never gonna not feel safe with me.”


1, 5, 10, 15



You are not your thoughts. Focus more on your choices / actions.


17



Google earth app means there's always a globe at hand. Point out states, countries or oceans when we hear about them.


4-9



“It’s best if we don’t speak for a while.” Practice it


19, 21



It’s okay to take a beat, a pause before you answer: “Hold on, let me think about how this is going to work...” I’ve seen a lot of mistakes or loss of confidence in an employee because they just blurted out a guess or starting off in the wrong direction only to have to go back- just because the plan hadn’t been thought through. It only takes a minute.


15, 18, 20



Anger diffuser game to help better understand coping skills when angry


8-18



YouTube Randy Pauch The Last Lecture. Watch together.


14



Apollo 13 and The Martian Great movies about space, science, engineering, etc. Watch together.


12



Watch the local news together.


12



Sometimes fear feels like a signal to get out of there, but being uncomfortable in a new situation is totally normal. Practice sitting in that discomfort and you’ll find it gets easier.


9, 12, 15, 17, 21



Resist the urge to give unsolicited advice. Wait…this entire thing is unsolicited advice!


15



Read Thanks for the Feedback by Heen and Stone. Crucial for ADHD and rejection sensitivity. Wish I had it when I was about to launch into my career!


15, 19, 21



If you witness a moment of vulnerability in someone, keep it to yourself. Be respectful of people's dignity.


14-18



Read Big Magic by Liz Gilbert. Re-read every 5-10 years.


19, 21



If it costs you your peace it’s too expensive.


19



When someone introduces themselves as transgender, it’s no big deal. Simply say “nice to meet you” or “cool.” Then politely ask “What are your pronouns?” And then you know how they prefer to be addressed.


13