Never resist a generous impulse.


9, 12, 19



Give book "50 Things Every Young Lady Should Know" by Kay West.


14



What I most want to teach you this year is that you can always trust me. I will always love you, take care of you and never harm you. You may not always like me, but you can always trust me.


1



“If you want to be holy, be kind”. -Frederick Buechner


14, 19, 21



The Language of the Universe: A Visual Exploration of Mathematics https://www.amazon.com/dp/1536215058/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_R83V51QC1RGYVEZ4ESMQ


8



A person is only as good as how they treat you when they are angry with you.


17



It’s okay if you don’t know how (or don’t want) to move on. Start with something easier…just don’t go back.


16



Japanese multiplication (counting lines.)


8



Live a life of dignity and joy.


14, 21



Write “thank you” notes, send pics of them wearing the outfit Grandma gave, etc. You get so many gifts...Be a grateful recipient.


7



Read “Raising a Screen Smart Kid” by Julianna Miner before you consider giving him a phone.


10



There IS such a thing as coming on too strong. Err on the side of leaving them wanting more.


15, 18, 21



Dream big. Work hard.


18



Failed? Lift yourself up, or live there. You know the work you need to do, be it physical, mental, emotional or spiritual, etc. So do it. Do the work. The only bitterness in failure comes from not having the guts to get back up again.


12, 16, 18, 20, 21



If they like you you’ll know. If they don’t you’ll be confused.


15, 21



Biographies: Be inspired.


12



Consider the source. When you get information, look at where or who it’s coming from. Do you trust them? Are they an expert? When someone criticizes you. Do they know why they’re talking about and are they taking chances themselves. Pay no attention to hecklers.


15



Plan a neighborhood "Winter Olympics" for snow days. Create indoor and outdoor events.


8



Walking at night during the wintertime remember to wear a bright scarf or something reflective. So many pedestrians get hit when it’s dark outside because they’re wearing dark colors and drivers can’t see them.


15, 20



Psalm 37:3 “Do good and trust in the Lord.” That pretty much covers it.


9, 15, 21



For parties, collect cell phones and put them in a basket. "Parent calls only. Enjoy the people here! They're pretty awesome!"


12



“Be brave. Be resilient. Be kind. Be grateful.” -Hillary Rodham Clinton


12



When disciplining remember: First acknowledge the emotion, then address the behavior.


2-4, 13, 15



1

Listen to Celebrate Calm podcasts for help dealing with defiance.


4, 9, 15



SAT Prep https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/10/opinion/how-i-learned-to-take-the-sat-like-a-rich-kid.html


16



Go to College results. Org to look at graduation rates. How likely is a rising freshman at that school to stick it out and graduate in 4 years? HUGE variation, it should factor in their decision.


16



In social situations it's better to talk too little than too much. Don't over-share with people you're not close to.


15



1

When you meet people in an intimidating situation, like a job interview, etc. An easy trick is to imagine them as they were in kindergarten. (Don't talk to them like they'r 5 year-olds! But relate to them on a human level. We're all human - filled with talents and fears and insecurities. No matter how "important" or "unimportant" our station is.


16-21



There’s an art to speaking harsh truths in a delicate way. There’s an art in describing a ridiculous person or thing without being insulting. Mark Twain was a master at it. Read up!


17, 21



Always keep a can of WD-40 in the house.


21