Use Shutterfly or something like it to make Christmas books and birthday books each year.


Infant-21



Birds of a feather flock together


14



Consider the source. Consider whose company they are in. You may not know much about issue xyz but look and see who endorses them. If people you trust place trust in them.


11, 13, 15, 18, 21



Checkout Bedtime Math app. It’s a tool to make math fun.


5



Keep stuff on hand for guests. Be ready to be a good host / hostess at any moment.


16-21



Learn what triggers you. It’s probably just two or three things. Work on your issues


14, 18. 21



Be extra careful when you’re parking or pulling out of a driveway. It’s hard to see little kids or pets.


16



Plastic stackable dresser - 5 drawers labeled for days of the week. Put outfits in each. No drama emergencies on school days, the week’s wardrobe is planned out.


5



Look into "OK Go" videos.


7-14



Don’t stay down too long.


16, 19, 21



Don’t waste your life’s purpose worrying about what other people think about you.


12, 15, 21



Put your purse, (wallet,bag, phone, or shoe) in the backseat with the baby. Unattended babies die every day and it’s my worst nightmare.


Infant-3, 21



Promise me you’ll never intentionally hurt anyone (including yourself.) There’s no need to suffer in silence, I will help you or get you to someone who can help you no matter what, no matter when, no matter why.


13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18



When they turn 18 they should have a will, a financial power of attorney and a medical PoA.


17,18



Self-care is active not passive. (Zoning-out on the couch or sleeping all day isn’t self-care.)


13, 15



Talk about de-escalation techniques.


15



Teach him what to do and how to act if he gets pulled over.


16



"Tough times don't last. Tough people do."


11-14



“The Greatest Generation” by Tom Brokaw Listen to audio or read together


14



Your very existence is a miracle. Countless cosmic events and generations of ancestors had to come together in precisely the right way at precisely the right time for you to be here now. It’s an honor to be who you are. Act accordingly.


13, 15, 18, 20, 21



You are absolutely priceless. What someone thinks of you, whatever may happen to you, no matter who loves you (or rejects you), nothing can diminish your worth or your worthiness. You. Are. Priceless.


10, 14, 17



If you’re waiting on someone to change for the relationship to work, it’s not gonna work. Love ‘em or leave ‘em. But forget trying to change them. (Same works in reverse. If someone wants you to change something about yourself before they commit, don’t walk away…RUN!)


14, 18, 21



No one is ever really ready to be a parent. It’s definitely on the job training! But I’ll say this: If you’re prepared to put your family’s needs before your own, you’re as ready as anyone can be.


21



Defending yourself from a bear: NEVER run from or turn your back on a bear. Remember the rhyme: “If it’s black, fight back. If it’s brown hit the ground, if it’s white like Similac, frozen bear gonna send u back.” - Mamadou Ndiaye


16



Isometrics for “punishment” (wall sits, arm lifts, planks, etc.)


5



Test


1-2



Invest in a laminator, a label maker and a glue gun. You’ll be glad you did!


5



There’s an art to speaking harsh truths in a delicate way. There’s an art in describing a ridiculous person or thing without being insulting. Mark Twain was a master at it. Read up!


17, 21