Parent the way you want your children to behave. Compassion, patience. Loving.


1, 2, 3, 4



Kindness + Confidence = secret to success and “popularity.”


10, 12, 13, 14, 15, 17, 18, 21



Ask him to memorize and recite William Ernest Henley poem “Invictus” as a Christmas present for me.


15



Of all the things I worry about, addiction is very high on the list. Begin talks (age appropriate) about addiction.


7



take advantage of the bike trail. Bike places as a family.


11



Read (or listen to) The Greatest Generation by Tom Brokaw together as a family. It's broken up into small vignettes so it's easy to get through bit by bit.


15



Re-Read Tim Russert's Big Russ and Me.


14



Not knowing what you’re doing is a lot less terrifying than not knowing who to trust.


14, 19, 21



“You will encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.” -Maya Angelou


17



There are always blessings hidden within heartbreak: a friend you would never have met otherwise, an opportunity that would never have come up, an experience, an encounter, a promotion, etc. Always look for the blessings.


9, 11, 18, 21



Help him practice having tense conversations without getting a tone of voice.


15



Jam is an incredible resource of fun learning activities and projects in a safe online environment. Ages 6-16.


6



Make a pound of ground beef go further by adding chopped cabbage or mushrooms.


19



Violent thunderstorms can be dangerous. Avoid driving or being out in severe weather: car accidents, downed trees, high winds, lightning, flash floods, etc. are all potentially just don’t take your safety for granted if the weather is severe, stay sheltered unless you absolutely positively have to be out and about.


12-14, 16, 21



Follow love and kindness wherever they may take you and you’ll be fine. xoxo


13, 17, 21



Just for the record, I didn’t vote for Trump. I want my great-grandchildren to know that.


18



Hike Jones Run Falls at Shenandoah National Park.


11



Discuss the definition And ramifications of sexual misconduct (harassment, consent, etc.)


12



Model being a considerate person.


2-18



Attend a school board meeting or some sort of government meeting. Attend / participate.


13



Harm springs from excess.


12



Build a backyard adventure camp


8



The Buddhists say “life is suffering.” I think struggle might be a better word. Struggle is unavoidable, and it would do us good to stop expecting otherwise. And yes, everybody experiences pain and loss, etc. but I don’t believe we should expect our lives to be full of suffering.


17, 21



Talk about how choices become habits. Habits can become addictions. Describe how pathways are literally dug into the brain and it's very hard to change them once those paths are made.


13-16



2

I hope you find a partner with who are your most authentic self, and who you love for who they genuinely are.


15, 21



Change the furniture around in your dorm, apartment or bedroom every once in a while. It’s an easy way to break up a timeline like for a holiday a season or after a breakup, etc.


18



If you want to know what a woman wants in a man, I have a simple answer for you: watch the movie Scent of a Woman starring Al Pacino. Specifically, the tango scene.


14, 17, 21



Little trick for acne treatment: dandruff shampoo. Wash your face with Head and Shoulders and watch your skin clear up.


13-17



Theme this year: Self Control (Repeat every year until age 99)


6



Educate yourself. You can't solve a problem if you don't understand it.


14-21