Help them develop a positive attitude. http://www.momentsaday.com/10-activities-help-young-children-develop-a-positive-attitude/


5



Octavia Butler’s “Parable of the Sower.”


14



Grit.


14



Just because someone is an a-hole it doesn’t mean they’re wrong.


17, 21



Encourage others!!!


13



The only thing that matters is love. When we live with love - for God, for others and ourselves, that is what makes life worth living.


16



Talk to people like they belong and are valued exactly as they are in that moment.


12-14, 21



Read A Mother’s Reckoning by Sue Klebold (mother of Columbine shooter.)


12



When you feel hopeless that’s when you know it’s time to seek help. It’s a red flag in someone’s demeanor. Notify parents if you notice this feeling of deep despair in yourself or someone you know. Help really does help.


13, 15, 17, 19, 21



Before a play date or sleepover ask the parent “Are there any unlocked guns in the house?”


6-9



It’s hard to accept that the world can be so cruel and unfair, but sometimes accepting it and focusing on what part of it you CAN change is - I’ve learned - the key.


15



If you’re having trouble finding your passion, read biographies and memoirs of people from all walks of life. There are so many worlds out there! You’ll find one that excites you, where your unique talents and skill set can shine.


19



You are absolutely priceless. What someone thinks of you, whatever may happen to you, no matter who loves you (or rejects you), nothing can diminish your worth or your worthiness. You. Are. Priceless.


10, 14, 17



In social situations it's better to talk too little than too much. Don't over-share with people you're not close to.


15



Give yourself a break from thinking about yourself.


13, 16, 21



Live a life of dignity and joy.


14, 21



Never follow an “I love you” with a “but...” Instead, follow it with “and...” or “that’s why...” Remember this when they’re young, teach it to them when they’re older.


10, 20



Great article about teaching young kids how to do better than “I’m sorry” when they’ve caused another child pain. https://offspring.lifehacker.com/what-to-say-to-little-kids-instead-of-say-sorry-1819288365?fbclid=IwAR0bKgo60isKj6a5D2s3cs1leWCIyK9TXTBK62upV9U1S_bR0otfJndwg_k


3, 8



Sometimes, no matter how great a thing is it can’t make up for what it’s not.


14, 19, 21



Read article about Digital Learning/ transitioning to doing homework on a computer. http://community.today.com/parentingteam/post/it-doesnt-have-to-stay-on-the-screen


10



You can get into big trouble (with school and the law) even by fake / joke threats of violence (bomb threat, etc.) No jokes or pranks that have anything to do with violence.


11



“Enthusiasm is the answer to everything.” - Rodrigo’s father


15, 21



The opposite of addiction is connection.


11, 14, 17, 20



Don’t be a mooch! Contribute: To your home, your relationships, your work, your community, your church, your country, the world. Think about how much you get from all these things. It’s so much more from all these things than you could ever pay back, but that doesn’t mean you don’t try. Dig in and contribute wherever you can. Never free-load. That’s not who we are. Be brave and contribute your talent, treasure or whatever you can. Duty and compassion both demand it.


11-18



Be on the lookout for people who are not included and reach out. There was a girl in my 8th grade class who was pregnant. Nobody talked to her, including me. Looking back, I regret that deeply. How scared and alone she must have been. She could have used a friend. I wish I would have asked her to sit by me at lunch or talked to her about homework or something.


11-13



Discuss the definition And ramifications of sexual misconduct (harassment, consent, etc.)


12



Explain what “On my honor” means.


8



Plan a few screen-free weekends every year. (Reticket until 16.)


7



Teach them about shaken baby syndrome.


13



Watch movie Sky Walk (2019) it’s about a school paper.


14, 18