Sponsor a child in a developing country. Write letters, learn about their country and their life.


8



Discuss the definition And ramifications of sexual misconduct (harassment, consent, etc.)


12



You will never be good enough for the wrong person. This truth is profound and one I wish I learned a lot earlier in my life. Stop tripping over yourself to please someone who doesn’t get you.


21



"The idea that some lives matter less is the root of all that is wrong with the world." - Paul Farmer


15, 21



Walk up the Washington monument. No elevator!


11



Actions have consequences- so does inaction. Avoiding a problem or decision is not an effective solution.


18



The opposite of addiction is connection.


11, 14, 17, 20



Read up about the National Parks. Pick one to plan a trip to.


9



"Tough times don't last. Tough people do."


11-14



1

Read (or listen to) A Fragile Stone together.


15



Kindness is magic.


11, 15, 21



Begin planning trip for 10th bday. Maybe to Atlantis in Bahamas or someplace he’d be excited about._____Get him involved in planning and saving.


8



Sex isn’t something you “score.” It’s not a competition. Whether the encounter is casual or within a committed relationship it’s something that is shared.


16, 19, 20



I’ve been trying to retrain my brain to deal with anxiety in healthy ways. It’s SO hard when these connections were fused decades ago. BUT I REFUSE to be a party to YOU laying down those same unhealthy neurological pathways. I’ll teach you better ways to handle stress and anxiety. Exercise/ Music/ warm showers/ creativity/ rest/ journaling/ meditation... WHATEVER! I promise to Somehow teach you what I never learned.


5-10, 14



Pick a project on Instructables.com and work on it together this winter.


7



Remember that whoever you’re grieving would only want the best for you.


20



When you feel like judging someone, try to resist the urge and get curious instead. There’s always a story.


16



Talking to people you disagree with is sometimes difficult. But it doesn’t have to be. Enter every conversion assuming you have something to learn.


14, 18, 21



Remember Mom's birthday


2-21



Explain what “On my honor” means.


8



No bragging. Don’t toot your own horn.


11, 15, 21



Universal Studios


12-18



Look for glimmers. The opposite of triggers. Feels of elation, belonging, peaceful contentment. I just watched you glimmer as you delighted in your first Crunchbox. “I made this!!!”


12, 15, 19, 21



What does entitlement mean to you? I think it means the assumption that we are owed something simply by virtue of who we are rather than what we’ve earned.


10



“Pay yourself first” means save before you spend. You never know when you’ll need to tap into savings, so build it up early and heartily.


18



Teach them about shaken baby syndrome.


13



Ask yourself "What kind of man do I want to be?"


14-21



Treat your subordinates as if you’ll be working for them someday.


21



Take advantage of all the help that’s available to you! Counselors, advisors, mentors, etc. Then pay it forward when you’re in a position to do so.


17



“God is gentle and loving. He desires you to have a deep sense of safety in His love.” - paraphrasing Henri Nouwen


16