Check your ego. Often.


17, 21



Find an activity / sport that they enjoy and support it. Get them outside and in the fresh air.


6-16



American Sign Language course


15



Lookout for the girls when you’re in a group. Some boys will try to take advantage or straight up r@pe them. Your responsibility goes beyond avoiding harming anyone. Your male privilege is a perk…earn it. Protect girls from sketchy dudes. No big deal, just help when you can and then move along. Don’t expect a cookie.


14,15, 16, 17, 21



Play this every year between 12-21. https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPd2b593U/


12, 14, 16, 21



Practice road-rage roll playing. People are NUTS! It's hard to imagine how you'll react when someone gets aggressive with you. Let's practice staying calm when someone is shouting and in your face.


15-17



“It’s okay to be sad. It’s okay to grieve. Because you can also live your life, and love your life, and be happy too.” Excellent advice from 9/11 survivor.


12, 15, 19



Check out news-for-kids websites like Dogo News and NBC Learn.


7



Sesame Street has great resources on teaching finances to little ones.


4-5



Depression can look a lot like a bad attitude. Try reacting to his chronic edginess with “Sounds like you’re in pain. You can come to me about anything, any time.”


15



Police officers and members of the military put their lives on the line to protect us. Be respectful of them and thank them for their service.


9



I wish I had heard this in my 20’s. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRtFBvGr/


20



Someone I admire is __________. Talk about someone you admire and why. Ask them to do the same. Do this often as you can. Reticket through age 18.


4



I would rather deal with a big truth than a little lie. Whatever it is you’re going through we can solve it together but only if we’re both honest.


14



“People are in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Pain comes when we try to put them in the wrong category.” - random therapist I never met.


16



"Tough times don't last. Tough people do."


11-14



Be willing to say “I don’t know” if you don’t know! Don’t just make stuff up.


15, 20



Rain, snow or sleet...Always return the shopping cart to the proper spot in the parking lot.


17



Drunken shenanigans are part of life when you’re in college, etc. but it gets old fast. That kind of behavior as an adult is just sad. Drink responsibly. Don’t make an $@!#% out of yourself. I recommend this rule: Don’t have more than one drink at a work function.


21



Throw some love at a problem.


12, 15, 21



Grandpa used to describe injuries and medical procedures as “It’s a nothin.” I think of this every time I have to endure something painful.


14, 18



Biographies: Be inspired.


12



Rock those babies to sleep as often as you can.


0, 1, 2



Invest in a laminator, a label maker and a glue gun. You’ll be glad you did!


5



Build a treehouse together


8



Read “Attack of the Black Rectangles” by Amy Sarid King.


12



At dinner time, go around the table and share your “highs and lows” for the day. (Re-ticket up to 21)


5



Ask them to think of foods that taste good and also foods that make them feel good. Involve them in lunchbox decisions, dinner planning and prep, etc. so they’re empowered by their food habits.


6-9



Put down your phone and be in the moment. Teach this. Model this.


7



Let them borrow your calm. Little ones (grownups too) sometimes just need to freak out a bit. Stay there. Be near. Don’t judge or even help. Just be there, and stay calm. Your loving energy is all they need as they work through it themselves. Keep them safe but other than that don’t help or advise unless they ask.


2-6, 17, 21