I’m going to keep from telling them how to feel.


4-18



Participate in an exchange program - either through hosting or traveling yourself & immerse yourself in the new culture


17



Today is not the day to lose your sh*t. Deep breaths, cold water, do your hair. You’re gonna be just fine.


1-21



Make "place value cups" as a rainy day activity and way to teach big numbers. (google, youtube or pinterest)


6-7



When you feel like giving up, rest. But then keep going! So many good things ahead. So many people that are meant to be in your life who you haven’t met yet.


18



change the wifi password often. Hold it hostage until chores are done. Work first, play later.


9-14



We’re born full of love. Life is about choosing where you want to put it. -xo


15, 19, 21



In social situations it's better to talk too little than too much. Don't over-share with people you're not close to.


15



1

I don’t want you to do drugs. It could hurt or $@!#% you. If you get caught doing drugs it could hurt your academic record


12, 15, 18



Knowing something is right and application of it are two different things. To apply yourself takes discipline. Practice it.


15



You’re getting stronger by the day. Use your strength to protect, never to intimidate. Abusers and bullies are cowards and just the worst of men.


14, 17, 21



You’ll start dating soon. Have fun! Good luck. Prepare yourself for broken hearts. They come with the territory. (Worth it.) Talk about healthy ways to manage breakups and fear of breaking up.


13



Being a professional means taking your work seriously not necessarily taking yourself seriously but take the job seriously, you’re there to do a job your income and the income of those around you depend on it is not a joke. It is not something to be played with you made a commitment, honor it. Show up, prepared and ready to work. Be there on time dressed well alert and positive..


16, 17, 21



Read “Lighter” by Yung Pueblo. Read it every year.


17, 19, 21



Sailing lessons.


14



Jazz in the Garden free outdoor concerts at National Gallery of Art. Fridays during summer months.


7



There are all kinds of parenting and mommy blogs with good resources. A quick Google search will get you started.


Infant



“ A vocation is where our anger and our joy meet.” -Sarah Bessey


16



A simple trick to calm your nerves: Name 5 things you can hear right now.


5-15



Book “8 Candles and a Tree” about celebrating interfaith holidays.


7



Go as a family to local high school musical productions.


9-13



1

Just because you love someone doesn’t mean they feel loved by you. Meet the kids where they are.


2, 9, 21



Kitchen Commandment: She who cooks the dinner shall not clean up from dinner. I don't want to raise any of you to take housework for granted. It's hard. It's unfair and not cool to expect anyone (parent, spouse, roommate, etc. )to wait on you.


7-18



There’s a great scene in Game of Thrones where Tyrion is trying to prepare for an impending siege of the city but he doesn’t know how to begin planning a defense. Until he starts thinking about how his enemy is most likely to attack. Defense is reactive, offensive is proactive.


19



Be generous in all things. That is my hope for you.


14, 18, 21



Have the first of many talks about what consent means. Tell them (boys AND girls) that consent needs to be informed, enthusiastic, sober, ongoing and freely given. Stress that, in no uncertain terms, the absence of consent is rape. Discuss the legal, moral and emotional consequences.


12



Life doesn’t have to turn out like you imagined it would in order to be AMAZING.


19



Practice road-rage roll playing. People are NUTS! It's hard to imagine how you'll react when someone gets aggressive with you. Let's practice staying calm when someone is shouting and in your face.


15-17



Research says working with your hands is good for your mind and spirit. Even if it’s just folding laundry or doing yard work. Let’s find a hobby u might like working with your hands.


12