SAT Prep https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/10/opinion/how-i-learned-to-take-the-sat-like-a-rich-kid.html


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Have them practice making trade offs based on their financial priorities. For example: Pedicure or movie?


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Trust me when I tell you that one day you’ll look back and realize you judged people unfairly and you held strong to convictions only to end up changing your mind about in the light of life experience. Leave a little space open for second impressions or the possibility that you could be wrong.


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Life is for the living. It’s okay to move on. It’s okay to laugh and dream, work, to party, to rest rest, etc. you honor the dead by living your life. Everyone meets up in the end anyway!


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101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think by Brianna Wiest. Listen to it yearly!


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Two words: Kinetic Sand.


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People who have something to prove are dangerous to themselves and others. We are all worthy of love. Remember that.


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“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” - Eleanor Roosevelt


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Attend a Pride parade.


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Read poem “Wild Geese” by Mary Oliver. (“...You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves...”)


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Don’t worry if they’re not listening to what you say...They watch what you do. They study it.


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Change the furniture around in your dorm, apartment or bedroom every once in a while. It’s an easy way to break up a timeline like for a holiday a season or after a breakup, etc.


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I like to say a Hail Mary just to join the chorus, to add my voice to the millions who are praying in that moment. The world has plenty of people thinking or doing horrible things, we need to add to the good, add to the beauty as much as possible at every turn. Saying a quick prayer is sometimes all I can muster.


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Just for the record, I didn’t vote for Trump. I want my great-grandchildren to know that.


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Educate About Risks of Driving


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“Love is giving your heart without expectation.” - Dan Fogelman


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No matter how successful you become you’re still expected to act with integrity and respect.


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You’re someone’s cup of tea. I don’t mean there is only one person out there for you, I mean someone is waiting to love you exactly how you are. Stop wasting time with fools who want to change you to fit their ideal.


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Read “Raising a Screen Smart Kid” by Julianna Miner before you consider giving him a phone.


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My favorite version of myself is when I’m not worried about what others think of me. I


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“Never let anyone tell you who you are. SHOW them who you are.” - Kamala Harris


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The Language of the Universe: A Visual Exploration of Mathematics https://www.amazon.com/dp/1536215058/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_R83V51QC1RGYVEZ4ESMQ


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Just for the record, I didn’t vote for Trump. I want my great-grandchildren to know that.


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Eat with purpose, not for it. Sometimes the purpose is fuel, sometimes celebration. Eat accordingly!


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Lookout for the girls when you’re in a group. Some boys will try to take advantage or straight up r@pe them. Your responsibility goes beyond avoiding harming anyone. Your male privilege is a perk…earn it. Protect girls from sketchy dudes. No big deal, just help when you can and then move along. Don’t expect a cookie.


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Be intentional. You don’t get to choose what they remember.


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Just because someone is an a-hole it doesn’t mean they’re wrong.


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Challenge yourself every day, in one way or another. Mentally (read!) Is there any room for growth in an area you are struggling with? physically (take your pick but never take stupid risks with your safety), emotionally (allow yourself to be vulnerable. Apologize.), spiritually (pray/meditate/ fast.)


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A man is not a financial plan.


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You can’t be a good parent if you’re a miserable person. Take care of yourself. Make the changes necessary to get in a good place. Ask for help. The happier you are, the happier they will be.


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