change the wifi password often. Hold it hostage until chores are done. Work first, play later.


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Always hold the door open for the next person.


4-14



1

Toddler not interested in food? Hand them a random kitchen gadget to play with while you’re feeding them dinner, they’ll eat more if distracted.


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People will speak or act in all kinds of unpleasant ways. Stay calm and kind.


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Encourage others!!!


13



Resource: the website Ask, Listen and Learn has great material about how to start a conversation about the dangers of under-age drinking. asklistenlearn.org


9



Jazz in the Garden free outdoor concerts at National Gallery of Art. Fridays during summer months.


7



“Be curious. Read. Use the latest tools available to you.” - Bill Gates when asked for his advice to young people in the dawn of AI era.


12, 14, 16, 18



My favorite version of myself is when I’m not worried about what others think of me. I


11, 13, 15, 17, 21



“Don’t ever let anyone tell you what you see with your own eyes isn’t happening.” -English teacher Read Diary of Anne Frank together.


12



Look for answers where truth, laughter, kindness, beauty, compassion and love are found. (Not in outward appearances or illusions of perfection. Not in cynicism, apathy or destructiveness.)


10, 13, 16, 19, 21



Con-men (or women) appear perfect. They are good-looking, kind, flattering, etc. Most people are good. But be careful of those who seem to be too good.


15



Give baby a banana before bed and they’ll sleep through the night. (Obviously once they’re on solid food.)


1



Birds of a feather flock together


14



Sometimes it happens that what you do [for a living] is who you are. I’m reading a great book about that called The Women by Kristin Hannah.


16, 20, 21



School shootings are a result of blind rage and complete hopelessness. First, ban the f*cking guns. But we need to teach our kids how to handle big emotions. To expect them, how learning to navigate them is like learning to fly an F16. It will be tough, yes but you will learn how to fly expertly, safely, and with your own style and flair.


12-15



Avoid commenting on the number of children someone has (or doesn’t have.) Its none of your business to ask why a couple doesn’t have kids or remark if they announce they’re pregnant with their 7th (other than to say “Congratulations.”)


15, 21



Make sure you always have Uber gift cards on hand for friends, emergencies or whatever.


15-18



Golf lessons. Grampa loved golf, if he were here he would have taught you himself.


9



Look into Kano (make your own computer)


7-11



Just let them be who they are. Enjoy getting to know them.


1-21



Talking to people you disagree with is sometimes difficult. But it doesn’t have to be. Enter every conversion assuming you have something to learn.


14, 18, 21



Find an activity / sport that they enjoy and support it. Get them outside and in the fresh air.


6-16



Be a safe place. Teach them to be a safe place too.


12



Marry for character, not just chemistry.


17, 21



Soap and water go a long way towards fixing many problems.


12, 19



Universal Studios


12-18



Practice sitting and standing "like a statue" to teach them how to be still. Start with a goal of 5 or 10 seconds, gradually move to 2 minutes. Same thing for "silent game" to teach them how to stay quiet when they need to. Bribery helps teaching this concept!


3-4



One of the funny/sensitive things about puberty is that kids can be the same age chronologically while being wildly varied in terms of development. Kid might be 6 feet tall in seventh grade or be a senior in high school and still not shaving. Everyone is self conscious, praying to avoid embarrassment. It’s all just part of growing up. Be kind to yourself and to your equally mortified peers.


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