YouTube Randy Pauch The Last Lecture. Watch together.


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Watch TED talk on Rejection Therapy: “What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang”


15, 21



Cut people some slack, everyone is entitled to a bad day.


17-20



Watch movie Sky Walk (2019) it’s about a school paper.


14, 18



Sometimes it feels really good to say “no.” (Or “no thank you.” Or “$@!#% no!”)


14, 20



If you’re easily offended you are easily manipulated. So take a breath and turn off your ego.


14, 19, 21



Some people have more money than sense. Just because u can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it.


15



In the words of Bear Grylls... '”Survival can be summed up in three words - never give up. That's the heart of it really. Just keep trying.”


14, 17, 21



Ask the question “What are you doing when you feel most like yourself?”


16



Beware of people that try and rial you up. Who benefits from what they’re saying? Are they trying to sell you something? Are they trying to scare you or appealing to other base emotions or prejudice? Are they qualified on the subject, or do they just have an opinion? Plenty of good, smart people get radicalized


13, 17, 21



I highly recommend you read The Crane Wife by CJ Houser.


15, 17, 19, 21



Self-care is active not passive. (Zoning-out on the couch or sleeping all day isn’t self-care.)


13, 15



Review basic grammar mistakes: Their, they’re and there. “It’s” and “its” “a lot”, etc.


10



You are not your thoughts. Focus more on your choices / actions.


17



Ask: What are you responsible for?


15-18



Choose to love despite the rage. See poem by Lucas Jones “ I Will Teach My Sons to be Dangerous Men.”


12, 14, 16, 19, 21



Watch “The Sandlot” together. Great story about friendship and showing up for each other.


8



Look into "OK Go" videos.


7-14



Teach your pets they can trust you. Take care of them. Treat them with tenderness. Teach them how to behave. (Unless it's a cat. You can't teach cats anything.)


15



Grandpa didn’t drink coffee, but when he was in Korea he used to drink it just so he could hold the cup and keep his hands warm. (During the Korean War be enlisted in the Marines with a bunch of his buddies right after high school.)


14, 21



Honesty without kindness is brutality. Kindness without honesty is manipulation. (That said, when anyone asks if that outfit makes them look fat, the answer is “you look perfect.”)


20



Before a play date or sleepover ask the parent “Are there any unlocked guns in the house?”


6-9



Read Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson together.


17



When making decisions or setting goals etc, approach from the perspective of your truest self. That’s integrity.


14, 18, 21



Paint rocks with pictures or kind messages and find public places to leave them where they can hide in plain site. See RockOurWorldArt.


8-11



Make “good trouble” as Rep. John Lewis said. Justice is won, not given.


14, 19



"The idea that some lives matter less is the root of all that is wrong with the world." - Paul Farmer


15, 21



Know the difference between an inconvenience and a tragedy. Hint: If it can be fixed with money or effort, it’s probably not a tragedy.


15, 20



Encourage creativity, science and engineering: Make a craft station / work bench for projects. Fill it with all kinds of art supplies, engineering kits, tools, pegboard, etc. Stock safety equipment like goggles and make sure the area has good lighting. Lots of ideas on Pinterest, etc.


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Best take on parenting: “My kid is never gonna not feel safe with me.”


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