Write your own job description. When you've been around long enough to know what you're good at and can identify what needs in the company you can help with.


21



Always hold the door open for the next person.


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1

Zero-cost method to reaching your goals (academic, career, fitness and health): Get up an hour earlier. You’ll be amazed how much you can get done and how “on top of it” you feel.


16, 18, 21



It’s your civic duty to vote (including midterms!) Be an informed voter.


16, 18



Check out Harmonia School on Mill St Music Art Theatre


6



Sponsor a child in a developing country. Write letters, learn about their country and their life.


8



Just love them. With all your might, them for who they are, and where they are. Forget about the other stuff.


15



Be a good guest. Never arrive to a dinner or a party empty handed. Bring a gift: flowers, food, drink, etc.


18



Get up early on a Saturday and go downtown. See how fun it is to be up before the rest of the world.


7-9



It’s hard to accept that the world can be so cruel and unfair, but sometimes accepting it and focusing on what part of it you CAN change is - I’ve learned - the key.


15



Check out news-for-kids websites like Dogo News and NBC Learn.


7



Biographies: Be inspired.


12



Read article about Digital Learning/ transitioning to doing homework on a computer. http://community.today.com/parentingteam/post/it-doesnt-have-to-stay-on-the-screen


10



“There’s a hole in the side of a boat. It can’t be fixed, it’s never going away, and you can’t get a new boat. This is your boat. What u have to do is bail water out faster than it’s coming in.” -Aaron Sorkin (Newsroom season 3 episode 6.)


17, 21



Be appreciative of people’s time. Send thank you notes after interviewing and applying for jobs, scholarships, etc. even if you don’t get picked. It’s common courtesy and it’s a good way to make a good impression for next time.


18, 20



The universe is cheering for you!


14, 16, 18, 20



You can love someone and still not tolerate their abuse. Protect your peace and safety.


17, 21



We struggle so much when we don’t know ourselves. Are you a thinker (creative, big picture) or a doer (meticulous, task-oriented.) Both are great by the way.


16, 21



Don’t be a mooch! Contribute: To your home, your relationships, your work, your community, your church, your country, the world. Think about how much you get from all these things. It’s so much more from all these things than you could ever pay back, but that doesn’t mean you don’t try. Dig in and contribute wherever you can. Never free-load. That’s not who we are. Be brave and contribute your talent, treasure or whatever you can. Duty and compassion both demand it.


11-18



When you meet someone for the first time try to clear your mind of any assumptions about physical appearance. Race, gender, age, handicap/disability, etc.


17, 21



Give them the book Starfish by Lisa Fipps.


12, 14



Grandpa used to keep a hundred dollar bill stashed discreetly in his wallet “for emergencies.”


17



Teach how to carve a turkey.


15



Golf lessons. Grampa loved golf, if he were here he would have taught you himself.


9



When they’re upset just ask what they need: space, distraction, or talk about it.


12



They’re very teachable at this age. When behavior is bad, send to their room for a brief “time-out.” Then go get them by sitting and putting him/her on your lap. Talk (1-3 sentences) about why we don’t behave that way and how I expect you to behave instead. Then hugs and kisses. If the offense is really bad, introduce consequences (which have to be immediate, they wont understand missing out on something hours from now, won’t make the connection.)


3



Grit.


14



Rent kayaks.


14-16



Born To Dance has lessons and also does birthday parties. A dance class is a good way to get up and out of the house on Saturday mornings during the winter months. It'll be fun at this age - while he's still young enough to enjoy it without being self-conscious. Also a good way to get exercise before he's ready for organized sports.


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