Something to remember on those days when the kids are making you nuts and you’re at the end of your parenting rope: “They love you no matter what. They always want to be close to you. Even when you’re screwing up, they still think you’re amazing. They want to be just like you when they grow up. You are their hero. You may be their mom, but they’re constantly reminding you of your worth.”


2



Some people think the world owes THEM. They have a backwards. We are servants. How can we best serve?


12-21



Start a vegetable garden.


7



Universal Studios


12-18



Just do the next right thing. One step at a time, you’ll get there.


13, 18, 21



No matter how successful you become you’re still expected to act with integrity and respect.


14, 18, 21



Pretty much everything boils down to looking for love, its many forms. Look in good (creative) places. Avoid looking for love in bad (destructive) places.


15, 17, 19, 21



Teach them that when we hear sirens it means someone is in trouble but help is on the way.


2-5



Always keep a can of WD-40 in the house.


21



Send thank you acknowledgemnt for gifts received


1-21



If it costs you your peace it’s too expensive.


19



“Vulnerability is not about winning or losing, it’s about showing up and being seen.” -Brene Brown Be vulnerable, that’s where the good stuff lies.


18



“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” - Eleanor Roosevelt


13, 19



The most important things I can teach you is how to love and be loved


14, 19, 21



Watch Ken Burns’ “The US and the holocaust.”


17



Reinforce this at every opportunity: “You matter.” Kids respond to this message deeply, whether it comes from a positive source (parents/teacher/coach) or people who are only trying to exploit them.


2-18



Clip nails after bath. It’s easier to do when they’re softer. (Teach them the same thing when they’re old enough to do it for themselves.)


1, 10



Go to Planet Word and do the Lexicon Lane puzzle experience.


12



Discuss difference between foods that taste good vs. foods that make you FEEL good.


12-14



It’s very easy to wander into trouble- not usually easy to wander out of it.


12



“Don’t ever let anyone tell you what you see with your own eyes isn’t happening.” -English teacher Read Diary of Anne Frank together.


12



Hold fast to what is good. (1 Thessalonians 5:21)


10, 15, 21



Encourage creativity, science and engineering: Make a craft station / work bench for projects. Fill it with all kinds of art supplies, engineering kits, tools, pegboard, etc. Stock safety equipment like goggles and make sure the area has good lighting. Lots of ideas on Pinterest, etc.


8



1

My mom used to proudly describe herself as an “Irish Catholic Democrat.” I think my dad voted for Reagan once but other than that we’re all pretty liberal.


18



Practice sitting still and quiet. Make it a game. Helps with focus and impulsivity.


4-7



The bull-sh*t never ends. Dealing with the bull-sh*t IS your job. If you think you’ll ever reach a “post-bullsh*t stage in your life, you’re wrong.


12, 15, 19, 21



Start explaining wants vs. needs. Continue explaining for the next 30 years. We don’t always get what we want. That’s okay. 4 year olds can begin to understand this.


4



Super good-looking people often don’t develop good people skills because they’ve been able to get by on their looks. Listen! Beauty fades. Get curious about people who don’t necessarily catch your eye right away.


16, 19, 21



Getting your drivers license will depend not only on government requirements (age, passing tests, etc.) but also maturity and trustworthiness.


14



Theme: Dignity


11