You can love someone and still not tolerate their abuse. Protect your peace and safety.


17, 21



Attend a school board meeting or some sort of government meeting. Attend / participate.


13



Listen to records, a whole album at a time. 2 or 3 in a row. Bring friends, eat, drink, hangout, be goofy, dance, etc.


14-18



"You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read." ~ James Baldwin


14, 19



***Manners!! *** Etiquette is the secret sauce. Everyone appreciates being treated with respect. Etiquette is the art and science of respecting others. It’s timeless and universal. Customs change, hence the need for constant study, but respect is always the foundation. In summary: Be nice. Start with yourself. Study etiquette. It will help you in every single interaction you have, social, professional, financial, everything. Manners apply to every human, in every interaction, even on the hard days. Hence, the need for practice.


3, 5, 7, 10, 11, 15, 17, 19, 21



Attend a Pride parade.


9



Think about God as the driver of our car or the pilot of a plane- He gets us through the storm, he shows us and encourages us to enjoy the beauty of the scenery. But all the while He keeps us with him. He doesn’t cause the storms, He gets us through them. We can trust in his goodness and wisdom even when the conditions are really scary.


5, 12



Journal! I forget who said it but it’s so true: we don’t know how we think until we see what we say. Talking into a voice memo app or writing in a journal will help you process and grow.


13, 15, 19, 21



Review basic grammar mistakes: Their, they’re and there. “It’s” and “its” “a lot”, etc.


10



Life is difficult...Focus on the joy.


16, 20



Sometimes I think the best way to take care of them is to teach them to take care of others: Littler kids, sick or disabled, those who’ve been left out.


5-7, 1Infant-12



Let’s talk about how we can bless people - with what we have and by how we act.


7



Use timers to motivate and structure. "Better have your jammies on and teeth brushed by the time the timer goes off!" Using a simple timer helps things not drag on and on.


2-5



Look into YMCA “family camp” in PA.


7



I’m cool with “C”s. Do good work but don’t put too much pressure yourself.


14



“Take the risks. Make the big moves, even if they’re small moves. Forge ahead with your lives in any and every direction that moves you. I’m asking you to be fearless.” - Rebecca Pearson (character from NBC tv drama ‘This Is Us’)


21



Read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe together.


8



Pray for the courage to be yourself.


10, 13, 15, 17, 21



Check in on your friends. Even the ones that seem fine.


14-21



1

Pay attention to what people do and what they say. Try to look past their appearance. This is especially true for women, who are almost always judged primarily on the way they look.


12, 15, 19



Always hold the door open for the next person.


4-14



Practice "shaking off the sleepy." It's hard to wake up when your body is screaming for more sleep. If you practice, you'll get better. Get up, get in the shower and shake off the sleepy. It works!


6, 7, 13-15



Ask him to memorize and recite William Ernest Henley poem “Invictus” as a Christmas present for me.


15



Consider what you value. Act accordingly.


10, 14, 17, 20



Police officers and members of the military put their lives on the line to protect us. Be respectful of them and thank them for their service.


9



Read everything Brene Brown ever wrote.


20



Bring Christmas cookies to local fire station and police station. (Annually)


6



1

You an learn just about anything on Google or YouTube! Spend some time exploring together and caution about how to search safely.


9



Read Elizabeth Gilbert’s book on creativity. Re-read every few years!


17



Be protective, never be possessive. watch out for your friends’ well-being, their good names, that’s what friends do. But friends don’t try to manipulate someone’s feelings, thoughts or actions.Same goes for romantic relationships.


10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 18, 21