Watch the western “1883”.


13



Learning to keep your composure and maintain a respectful tone when you’re frustrated/angry/afraid/upset, etc. is a skill. PRACTICE it.


4, 5, 6, 7, 10, 12, 14, 16, 19, 21



No bragging. Don’t toot your own horn.


11, 15, 21



Enroll in a CPR course. Re-certify every year.


13



Never allow anyone to tell you who you are.


17



Look into Space Camp for next year


8



It’s your civic duty to vote (including midterms!) Be an informed voter.


16, 18



Write your own job description. When you've been around long enough to know what you're good at and can identify what needs in the company you can help with.


21



Like Cindy Crawford said, "I eat anything I want … I just don't eat as much as I want." Be mindful of portions. No need to eliminate the junk food but keep it to a minimum.


17, 21



Every time your heart breaks, your vision gets better. You appreciate beauty and recognize and respond to others’ pain better.


12, 15, 18, 21



Recipe for happiness that stands the test of time: Be who you are, and figure out how you are uniquely equipped to serve.


15, 21



Practice sitting still and quiet. Make it a game. Helps with focus and impulsivity.


4-7



Institute “Family Night” a screen-free night of games and fun and togetherness. Can use these times for conversations about things you want to address / teach. Maybe make theme nights and build around a lesson so it’s fun and enjoyable. Continue through school years.


4-6



“You have to meet people where they are. Sometimes, you have to leave them there.” -Iyanla Vanzant


21



In social situations it's better to talk too little than too much. Don't over-share with people you're not close to.


15



1

If you don’t have the words, borrow them. Send a song or a poem. As long as the sentiment is yours, the vowels and consonants don’t need to be.


13, 16. 21



Pretty much everything boils down to looking for love, its many forms. Look in good (creative) places. Avoid looking for love in bad (destructive) places.


15, 17, 19, 21



Talk to him about applying to Democracy Summer program started by Rep. J. Raskin.


18



When you meet someone for the first time try to clear your mind of any assumptions about physical appearance. Race, gender, age, handicap/disability, etc.


17, 21



There's an old saying that goes something like "Don't focus on how big your problems are, focus instead on how big your God is." On a certain level, that's way too simple, even trite. But without discounting the real pain you might be experiencing in a moment of crisis, I encourage you to embrace that sentiment. You can't forget about the problem, but you can change your focus, and decide to cling to the goodness of the Lord.


15



“Your life unfolds in proportion to your courage.” -Danielle Le Port


15, 18



Don’t quit your job until you have another job. Suck it up and make the best out of it.


21



Third party candidates destroyed decades worth of progress we would have made on the environment. Without that bozo Ralph Nader we would have gotten Gore. Your vote matters. My philosophy is vote with your heart in the primaries but with your head in the election. No candidate is perfect. No party is perfect.


17, 18



Harm springs from excess.


12



I hope you become more of yourself with every passing year. I love you so.


21



The universe is cheering for you!


14, 16, 18, 20



If a girl is drunk she cannot consent. Don’t even think about hooking up when your partner is intoxicated. It’s immoral and illegal. No excuses. No exceptions. . Break this law and you will be (rightfully) charged with rape and you will get sent to prison.


15



The only thing that matters is love. When we live with love - for God, for others and ourselves, that is what makes life worth living.


16