Dating advice: If they like you, you’re gonna know. If they don’t, you’re gonna be confused.”


16, 21



Dress to people will listen to you, not look at you. (This is especially true at school and work.)


15, 18, 21



1

Get book “Talk to Me First: Everything You Need to Know to Become Your Kids'Go-To Person about Sex.” by Deborah Roffman.


7



“Beer muscles” is when guys gain a sense of indestructibility, an exaggerated sense of their own strength. Fights and aggressive behavior ensues.


15



Grandpa never wore a watch. (This was way before cell phones existed.) Still, he always knew what time it was, and he was never, ever late.


14



Make "place value cups" as a rainy day activity and way to teach big numbers. (google, youtube or pinterest)


6-7



Read Thanks for the Feedback by Heen and Stone. Crucial for ADHD and rejection sensitivity. Wish I had it when I was about to launch into my career!


15, 19, 21



A person is only as good as how they treat you when they are angry with you.


17



The $@!#% never ends. Dealing with the $@!#% IS your job. If you think you’ll ever reach a “post-$@!#%” stage in your life, you’re wrong.


14, 19



Don't say anything out loud that you wouldn't want repeated or overheard. Don't email / text, etc. anything that you wouldn't want forwarded.


11-15



1

You tackled a big project and you're wondering if it will be a success. Ask yourself: "Was I fair?" Was I kind?" " Did I put in the work?" If the answer is yes, then rest well, no matter what the outcome. If the answer is no, go back and fix it.


17



When it comes to conflict- what is your part in things?


15, 21



Three things you cannot change: The past, the truth, someone else.


18



They’re not rejecting you, they’re just becoming who they are. Give them some space.


12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17



People are insecure. Be mindful of fragile egos (we all have them to a degree.) Avoid implying that people aren't doing a good job.


20



Kids (and people of all ages) need attention, affection and appreciation. It’s not all they need, but it’s a start!


11



Some people think the world owes THEM. They have a backwards. We are servants. How can we best serve?


12-21



Connect with people however you can, in whatever way feels natural to you: Talk, listen, perform, compete, create, laugh, pray, explore, share your truth, acknowledge the divine in yourself and in everyone you meet.


16, 21



Don’t be a dick.


21



Plan trip to Outside Lands music festival at Golden Gate Park


17



YouTube Randy Pauch The Last Lecture. Watch together.


14



Just show up. That’s all we can really control. Show up, (don’t run) and take it from there. You got this.


21



Play up your strengths. What are your strengths? What are you really good at or love doing?


13, 17, 21



Talk about how to act respectfully and be inclusive of children with disabilities and facial deformities, etc.


5-10



Never any point in arguing with drunks or fools.


17



Toast your wife at every occasion.


21



Brambly Hedge series by Jill Barklem.


2-5



Check out the Wolf Trap Children's summer theater.


4-11



Robin Williams was one of the best examples of how to be a good human.


15, 19, 21