When you begin dating it’s all butterflies and moonbeams. Eventually you’re going to do or say something that hurts the other person and vice versa. For that matter, eventually you’ll disagree about something. It’s VERY important to consider how they handle it. Nobody is perfect, it may not be pretty but it had better be civil. If not, don’t think for a second that they will change. Get outta there.


15, 21



Go to movie Star Wars


12



Learn what triggers you. It’s probably just two or three things. Work on your issues


14, 18. 21



Some people have more money than sense. Just because u can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it.


15



Guard your health and fitness as if it were your most valuable possession. (It is.)


14, 17, 21



Read Elizabeth Gilbert’s book on creativity. Re-read every few years!


17



You don’t have to like everyone you go to school with, or work with. You don’t even have to like your family! BUT, you have to treat everyone with respect and kindness. They are worthy of that no matter what your opinion of them may be.


15, 21



Enjoy your success but don’t flaunt it.


21



Summer concerts at Wolftrap- get good seats so they can really get a sense of the experience.


13-16



“There’s a part of me that’s a part of you” said a painter whose name I can’t remember. I don’t think he was talking to anyone in particular, or if he meant we’re all a part of each other. Either way, it’s a beautiful thought.


20



You will never have to hustle for your self-worth. You are worthy of love and respect simply because you exist. Same goes for every other human.


16



Help them develop a positive attitude. http://www.momentsaday.com/10-activities-help-young-children-develop-a-positive-attitude/


5



Get talking. Trade off likes, fears, hopes, dreams, pet peeves, etc. I like... I get mad when... I dream about... It makes me sad when I see... I’m afraid of... I wonder about...


4, 8, 14



Spread kindness like confetti.


12, 21



Read Harry Potter series to him / with him.


9-10



Teen years are a whole other ballgame. Find a community and stay up with trends and news. Check out the website Raising Teens Today.


12



Set up a 529 plan. Virginia has a great plan if you don't want to do too much research https://www.savingforcollege.com/


birth-age 3



Worst thing in the world is spending your life with the wrong person.


21



Sometimes there’s nothing else to do with the pain except to use it to build a new life.


13. 17, 19, 21



The version of you that will handle whatever problem comes your way will be born into existence in the moment when it happens. Trust your future self to handle future challenges.


12, 15, 21



Some people think the world owes THEM. They have a backwards. We are servants. How can we best serve?


12-21



Look into language school. Now is a good time to start learning Chinese, Spanish or Arabic.


5-8



Watch YouTube video on how to administer an Epi-pen injection. You have friends with allergies you may need to know how to do this.


11-15



Some days it feels like your world is falling apart, but what's really happening is that it's falling into place. Make good choices. Be kind. Be brave. Trust.


15, 21



The moment you lose your cool, you’ve lost.


12,13, 14, 15, 16, 21



“Remember Divas and Friends, if you don’t think good things about yourself, how do you expect anybody else to?” - Sheryl Lee Ralph


11, 12. 14. 16, 17, 19, 21



People will speak or act in all kinds of unpleasant ways. Stay calm and kind.


14-21



When trying to make a u-turn with a tight turning radius, go VERY slow. .You’ll be more likely to make it and if you don’t make it you won’t cause damage.)


16



Remember your training and staying calm and kind is how you get through this. It’s all you need to excel. So do your homework, whatever it may be. Show up and have at it. Calm and kind, baby. You got this.


9, 12, 14, 18, 21