Rock those babies to sleep as often as you can.


0, 1, 2



“Pirate Rules” is a temporary suspension of the usual rules. It means pretty much anything goes for this moment so we can all stay sane. ——-Loosen the rules on snacks, bedtime, screen time, etc. in special circumstances.


1-5



“The beginning parts are always the scariest.” -Jackson Daily (kid reporter on Today Show.)


10, 12, 16



When they turn 18 they should have a will, a financial power of attorney and a medical PoA.


17,18



We struggle so much when we don’t know ourselves. Are you a thinker (creative, big picture) or a doer (meticulous, task-oriented.) Both are great by the way.


16, 21



Plan trip to Outside Lands music festival at Golden Gate Park


17



The Buddhists say “life is suffering.” I think struggle might be a better word. Struggle is unavoidable, and it would do us good to stop expecting otherwise. And yes, everybody experiences pain and loss, etc. but I don’t believe we should expect our lives to be full of suffering.


17, 21



Shirts and pants don't go into the laundry inside-out. From now on, they will be responsible for turning their laundry right-side-out. Will help instill that laundry is not done by the laundry fairy.


4



open your own business


20



Emotional pain is just like physical wound- you can choose to ignore it but it will only fester. Address the pain. Literally talk to it, and listen to it- it’s got so much to say.


11, 13, 15, 16, 17, 19, 21



Paint rocks with pictures or kind messages and find public places to leave them where they can hide in plain site. See RockOurWorldArt.


8-11



You’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea. What’s something worth being hated for?


11, 14, 17, 21



Zootopia is a good movie to illustrate what a bully is and how we should stand up to them when they are hurting or taunting other kids.


5-8



C.S. Lewis books. (Children’s and adult.)


12, 21



I’d rather you be brave than perfect. Take chances. Fail, then pick yourself up and keep going.


18



Rudeness is a weak person’s imitation of strength.


13, 21



Emphasize "First things first." Distraction is always a challenge. Redirect focus to first things first.


5



Read “Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child” by Dr. Marc Weissbluth


Infant



Avoid love bombing.


15, 17, 21



Ask “What are you going to teach ME?” Let him work on something to teach.


11



Read "You Can’t buy a Dinosaur with a Dime" by Harriet Ziefert. Teaches kids about earning money through work, making choices, even paying taxes!


9



Everything not saved will be lost. This is true for documents in Word and in life.


16



Check out School of Rock (Vienna) or Bach to Rock.


9



Check out Long Lake Summer Camp in NY. Theater, the arts, etc.


12, 13, 14, 15, 16



I’m going to keep from telling them how to feel.


4-18



You don’t owe me a thing. Live your life as you will. I will always love you.


18, 21



Ladies, don’t waste a moment of your precious time trying to get a man’s attention. If he’s interested he will love heaven and earth to get YOUR attention. Save your energy for joy and work and learning and doing whatever floats your boat! Let him be the one to twist himself in knots.


15, 18, 20



Writing is thinking.


14, 17. 21



Go on a tour of the Kennedy Center. Free guided tours through Friends of the Kennedy Center.


10



You can’t hit ‘em all outta the park. Some days (dates, reviews, vacations, report cards, etc.) are just going to fall flat. No worries, the next one will be better.


15, 19