Never resist a generous impulse.


9, 12, 19



Explore the magic of Deer Valley YMCA Camp


07-13



Play to win but play fair. Be a gracious winner. Someone has to lose. Sometimes it will be you. Don’t whine.


10



Surround yourself with people and ideas that inspire you and captivate you. Life is too short for destructive relationships.


13, 18



Find what you love Do what you love Be what you love Live what you love Love what you love and never look back ... Except to love.


19



The moment you lose your cool, you’ve lost.


12,13, 14, 15, 16, 21



Led Zeppelin, Queen, The Who, Lynyard Skynard. Listen with headphones, listen alone, listen with friends. So many more good bands but if you start with these you’ll be well on your way.


15, 17, 21



Paradoxical Commandments by Kent Keith.


19



There are always blessings hidden within heartbreak: a friend you would never have met otherwise, an opportunity that would never have come up, an experience, an encounter, a promotion, etc. Always look for the blessings.


9, 11, 18, 21



You can get into big trouble (with school and the law) even by fake / joke threats of violence (bomb threat, etc.) No jokes or pranks that have anything to do with violence.


11



6 luxuries in life: 1. time 2. health 3. a quiet mind 4. slow mornings 5. ability to travel 6. house full of love -jade bonacolta


15, 21



Check into Brilliant.org for STEM activities.


12



I’d rather you be brave than perfect. Take chances. Fail, then pick yourself up and keep going.


18



Practice not putting stuff off. If it takes 10 seconds or less do it now. Then move up to 30 seconds or less. Keep going up to ~3 minutes. Good example is putting away laundry or emptying dishwasher, etc.


15



Play up your strengths. What are your strengths? What are you really good at or love doing?


13, 17, 21



Educate yourself. You can't solve a problem if you don't understand it.


14-21



Go to minor league baseball games this summer. Better seats, less crowds, easier, cheaper. Great players. Kids won't know the difference.


9-15



Plants eat sunlight. Eat mostly plants.


14, 17, 21



“Dress braver than you feel. Act braver than you feel.” - Ray


17



The secret to getting sinks and surfaces to shine is to dry-buff them after you clean them. Keep a soft clean rag or washcloth around so you can dry fixtures and sinks and counter tops. (They should be cleaning their own bathrooms by this age.)


11



Invest in a laminator, a label maker and a glue gun. You’ll be glad you did!


5



It's very important to me, the idea of the scale of good and bad, of beauty and suffering. I think we should do everything we can to increase the beauty and to take away from the suffering. We have to work hard to tip the scale in the direction of good.


1Infant-14



Make sure you always have Uber gift cards on hand for friends, emergencies or whatever.


15-18



Zero-cost method to reaching your goals (academic, career, fitness and health): Get up an hour earlier. You’ll be amazed how much you can get done and how “on top of it” you feel.


16, 18, 21



You an learn just about anything on Google or YouTube! Spend some time exploring together and caution about how to search safely.


9



Sometimes you have to put aside how you feel about a person and objectively look at how their actions show how they feel about *you.*


16



A hard day’s work is something to be proud of, not afraid of.


8, 12, 15, 20



Look into Space Camp for next year


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