I’d rather you be brave than perfect. Take chances. Fail, then pick yourself up and keep going.


18



Educate About Risks of Driving


12-15



Build something beautiful.


13, 21



They’re gonna be pretty mean to you for a few years. Love them, if only to spite them! (ha ha)


11. 12, 13



Home is where they love you.


13, 17, 21



Watch Ken Burns’ “The US and the holocaust.”


17



If you can’t afford to tip the server, you can’t afford to be there.


15



Ask him to memorize and recite William Ernest Henley poem “Invictus” as a Christmas present for me.


15



Staying calm is 90% of the battle. Practice.


13, 15, 18, 21



Anger diffuser game to help better understand coping skills when angry


8-18



Be supportive of someone who is trying to better themselves.


16



“Those who cannot change their mind cannot change anything.” -George Bernard Shaw...... As you live and love and learn, your views will evolve. It takes courage to grow.


16



Paint rocks with pictures or kind messages and find public places to leave them where they can hide in plain site. See RockOurWorldArt.


8-11



Rudeness is a weak person’s imitation of strength.


13, 21



Typically, brains aren’t mature until about age 25. ADHD brains take longer


17, 21



We don’t snoop. Never read a correspondence (email, letter, text, note, etc.) that is not intended for your eyes, or listen in to a conversation that is not intended for your ears. The right to privacy is sacred. Always respect people’s privacy and set the expectation that others do the same for you.


10



Build a treehouse together


8



My mom used to say that one thing her mom taught her was no matter how poor they were they always had a clean house. She made sure of it.


18



Sometimes I think the best way to take care of them is to teach them to take care of others: Littler kids, sick or disabled, those who’ve been left out.


5-7



Bottom line bible quote: Psalm 37:3 “Trust in the LORD and do good.” That pretty much covers everything.


13, 21



When you’re older, remember that stuff like video games, alcohol, junk food, gambling, porn, and a whole host of other vices can turn on you, and become an addiction that wrecks your health, relationships or even your life. You don’t have to give up all this stuff, but keep them to a minimum. How often and how much is a big difference. It’s the difference between meeting a friend for a beer or two and walking into work hungover most days. Remember: You decide- How often and how much.


13, 16, 19



"The only way to work through sh*tty feelings is to walk through sh*tty feelings." - Psychologist Kristen Howe Hard lesson, but big truth.


15



Look into YMCA “family camp” in PA.


7



“If the pain was deep you will have to let it go many times.” Yung Pueblo from book Lighter


15, 18, 21



Newborn babies don’t know their tummy hurst because they have to pass gas. They don’t know how to fall asleep when they’re tired. We have to provide all that context and help them learn about themselves. And we have to be patient with them. It’s hard work being a baby!


0, 1, 2



Always wear an undershirt underneath a dress shirt.


13



Start saving money early. Save as much as you can. There are plenty of things worth spending your money on, but be mindful about your money - Don’t p*ss it away.


15, 20



Find what you love Do what you love Be what you love Live what you love Love what you love and never look back ... Except to love.


19



Remember: “C’s get degrees.” Don’t tie yourself in knots over grades.


17, 18