At the hospital? Always confirm your name and date of birth and why you’re there.


16



You are 100% replaceable at work. You are not replaceable at home. A good work ethic is crucial but don’t drain yourself to the point that you don’t have anything left for your family and friends.


21



Piano


21



Sweetheart you don’t have room in your life for people who don’t get you. Let your light shine…and f*@k anyone who doesn’t appreciate it.


14, 16, 18, 20



Try not to say insulting or hurtful things, but NEVER write them. (Texts, notes, emails, etc.)


11



Be extra careful when you’re parking or pulling out of a driveway. It’s hard to see little kids or pets.


16



Sex: There's no single way to do it "right" but there are lots of ways to do it wrong. Not being respectful and tender towards your partner is usually at the root of "wrong" ways to do it. Also, there is no rush. You may think all your friends are "doing it." They're not. Take your time.


16



Book: “victory. Stand!” By Tommie Smith


14



Trying to avoid the real work makes the task 100 times harder. Do the work.


9, 15, 21



Camp Arena Stage


8



Ask”How can I be a better parent to you?” Listen.


1Infant-18



Make "place value cups" as a rainy day activity and way to teach big numbers. (google, youtube or pinterest)


6-7



Whether they’re young or old, try not to under-estimate people. Most people will impress the heck out of you.


15



Love isn’t enough but it’s a great start.


21



Enroll in a CPR course. Re-certify every year.


13



Paying extra for organic isn’t always worth it but I ALWAYS buy organic apples. They taste better and don’t have the pesticides, etc.


18



Play up your strengths. What are your strengths? What are you really good at or love doing?


13, 17, 21



Listen to The Moth (storytelling) together.


15



Throw leftovers and some cut up veggies in an omelette/ frittata. Cuts down on food waste and saves money.


17



Plan out first concert.


11



Fire drills. Practice what to do, where to go if the house is on fire. Have an escape plan.


5-10



Some people have more money than sense. Just because u can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it.


15



Isometrics for “punishment” (wall sits, arm lifts, planks, etc.)


5



Make an album Or Shutterfly book about Mom and Dad’s wedding and marriage. Stress themes of love, kindness, sacrifice, shared values and putting the other first. Talk about managing conflict in a loving relationship doesn’t mean never fighting but it does mean fighting fair. Make it an annual tradition to read through it and talk about marriage on their anniversary. (The next best thing to modeling a happy marriage.


9



You an learn just about anything on Google or YouTube! Spend some time exploring together and caution about how to search safely.


9



***Manners!! *** Etiquette is the secret sauce. Everyone appreciates being treated with respect. Etiquette is the art and science of respecting others. It’s timeless and universal. Customs change, hence the need for constant study, but respect is always the foundation. In summary: Be nice. Start with yourself. Study etiquette. It will help you in every single interaction you have, social, professional, financial, everything. Manners apply to every human, in every interaction, even on the hard days. Hence, the need for practice.


3, 5, 7, 10, 11, 15, 17, 19, 21



Don’t take criticism from people you wouldn’t take advice from.


16



Look into Kano (make your own computer)


7-11



Stuff is gonna happen! They will make incredibly stupid choices and get into all kinds of trouble. Take a beat. Be radically merciful. THAT is what they’ll remember and that is the lesson they’ll learn.


12-21



That uneasy, uncomfortable or even downright painful feeling you get when you’re faced with something that challenges you ... resist the urge to run away from it. Take a breath and just sit with it for a minute. That feeling you’re feeling is growth. Growth always hurts a little bit. Give yourself a beat to get adjusted before you decide if you want to stay or turn back.


7, 11, 14, 18, 21