We do what we do and feel how we feel because we think what we think. Our thoughts are so powerful. Let’s take each one captive today and be sure they’re the kind of thoughts we want guiding and influencing the way we live our lives.” -Lysa TerKeurst


14



Just put your best foot forward and get on with it!


14, 17, 21



Read (or listen to) A Fragile Stone together.


15



Start playing Jokers and Marbles. Get it on Amazon or Etsy.


9



Book: “victory. Stand!” By Tommie Smith


14



Marry your hero.


21



Read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe together.


8



We can disagree with people and still be respectful of them. (When what they espouse is something that hurts people, that’s where you can draw the line.)


16



The $@!#% never ends. Dealing with the $@!#% IS your job. If you think you’ll ever reach a “post-$@!#%” stage in your life, you’re wrong.


14, 19



"Tough times don't last. Tough people do."


11-14



1

Re-Read "Girls and Sex: Navigating the New Landscape" by Peggy Orenstein.


13



One of my favorite scenes in a movie is James Bond with Pierce Brosnan. Bullets are whizzing by him and he just so of gives a mildly annoyed look while focusing on what he’s doing. It’s quintessential cool.


15, 21



Life doesn’t have to turn out like you imagined it would in order to be AMAZING.


19



Be appreciative of people’s time. Send thank you notes after interviewing and applying for jobs, scholarships, etc. even if you don’t get picked. It’s common courtesy and it’s a good way to make a good impression for next time.


18, 20



Always hold the door open for the next person.


4-14



1

There is nothing “basic” about basic human dignity. Never treat a person as though they are put on this earth for your amusement. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity because we’re all human beings. No matter their age, looks, status, even past wrongdoing, everyone deserves to be treated with dignity.


14



Ask the question “What are you doing when you feel most like yourself?”


16



“The Greatest Generation” by Tom Brokaw Listen to audio or read together


14



Let’s talk about how we can bless people - with what we have and by how we act.


7



Give them marshmallows to suck on when they get a sore throat. Takes away the pain!


3,4,5,6



Read "You Can’t buy a Dinosaur with a Dime" by Harriet Ziefert. Teaches kids about earning money through work, making choices, even paying taxes!


9



“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” - Eleanor Roosevelt


13, 19



Explain what “On my honor” means.


8



Happiness, beauty, health, fun, success: define for yourself what each of those things mean. People and society are gonna try and convince you to share their definitions…don’t let them.


13, 15, 17, 21



Listen to the radio stations they listen to. Know their favorite songs and artists.


12



Ask”How can I be a better parent to you?” Listen.


1Infant-18



Think about building a career. Take low-paying or no-paying jobs that will give you the experience you need to build it. It's not all about the paycheck, especially when you're young and don't have too many bills to pay.


19-21



Music, arts, words or dancing can have a profound effect on the spirit. Let's find something that gives you chills!


11-14