Relationships can end beautifully and bravely. They’re not all going to be forever. It’s much better to grieve the end of a relationship than to endure an unhealthy one.


15, 19, 21



Toddlers fall... a lot. Most falls are harmless but sometimes bad accidents happen. Head injuries are scary because they bleed and swell. If bleeding doesn't stop within a few minutes or you can see it's a big gash, head to the urgent care. And remember if the swelling goes out (“goose egg”) that’s a good thing: Better out than in.


2



Spend time with people you admire, in person and biographies, documentaries, novels and movies.


14-17, 21



Read “Attack of the Black Rectangles” by Amy Sarid King.


12



“All the best things in life live on the other side of fear.” - Will Smith’s grandmother.


20



There IS such a thing as coming on too strong. Err on the side of leaving them wanting more.


15, 18, 21



Knowing something is right and application of it are two different things. To apply yourself takes discipline. Practice it.


15



Remember that your tend to act like/ think like the people you hang around most. Choose your friends (and your spouse) wisely.


10, 14, 21



Healing happens when you give up the hope that the past could have been any different. xoxo


20



Hydrolaunch Water Rocket outdoor sprinkler toy. Summer fun plus a little science lesson. On Amazon


5



Write “thank you” notes, send pics of them wearing the outfit Grandma gave, etc. You get so many gifts...Be a grateful recipient.


7



If they like you you’ll know. If they don’t you’ll be confused.


15, 21



Learn how to quiet your demons / that voice that tells you you’re not good enough. Great resource is Dan Harris’ 2022 TED talk.


14, 19, 21



Don't say anything out loud that you wouldn't want repeated or overheard. Don't email / text, etc. anything that you wouldn't want forwarded.


11-15



Write your own job description. When you've been around long enough to know what you're good at and can identify what needs in the company you can help with.


21



Participate in an exchange program - either through hosting or traveling yourself & immerse yourself in the new culture


17



If you’re waiting on someone to change for the relationship to work, it’s not gonna work. Love ‘em or leave ‘em. But forget trying to change them. (Same works in reverse. If someone wants you to change something about yourself before they commit, don’t walk away…RUN!)


14, 18, 21



“I need help. But I don’t know what I need help with. Could you ask me a few questions and help me figure it out?” Keep this one in your back pocket.


5, 7, 11, 13, 16, 19, 21



Highly encourage typing/ keyboarding class.


14



“Your warmth can be an invitation that unlocks their own.” - Elizabeth Lesser. I love this quote because it’s so true that when you’re kind and genuine, people respond. They take it as a signal that you are a safe place for them to express themselves, which will enable a true connection to be formed. You both win when that happens.


15, 21



One of the most important things I can teach you is to help you learn how to deal with big feelings without resorting to destructive behavior or violence. Everyone on the planet will experience loss, disappointment, grief, heartbreak, betrayal, etc. Tools to deal with these feelings: counseling, journaling, art, music, exercise, meditation, breathing exercises, yoga, being in nature, talking with friends, joining a support group, movement like dancing or skating, singing, acting, anthropomorphic dialogue with your emotions, naming your emotions and describe how they physically feel in your body. Asking the emotion what it needs you to know.


1Infant-20



Name five women who contributed to our country’s history.


8, 13, 16



Put down your phone and be in the moment. Teach this. Model this.


7



Anger is the bodyguard of sadness.


14



Kindness is magic.


11, 15, 21



Be open to the possibility that you might be wrong.


12, 14, 17, 21



Wipe your kids’ tears when they’re sad. Smile with them when they are happy. Hold them close when they are scared. And let them see your tears, smiles, and fears too. This is how you teach them to be a human in this world.


6



Harm springs from excess.


12



Be kind. Be brave.


5-10



The moment you lose your cool, you’ve lost.


12,13, 14, 15, 16, 21