Plan a few screen-free weekends every year. (Reticket until 16.)


7



Grandpa used to keep a hundred dollar bill stashed discreetly in his wallet “for emergencies.”


17



Re-Read "Girls and Sex: Navigating the New Landscape" by Peggy Orenstein.


13



Use Shutterfly or something like it to make Christmas books and birthday books each year.


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Never any point in arguing with drunks or fools.


17



Participate in an exchange program - either through hosting or traveling yourself & immerse yourself in the new culture


17



Intimacy is a feeling of safety. To let yourself be seen, touched, known, without defenses.


17, 21



“Don’t chase your dreams


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Dating advice: If they like you, you’re gonna know. If they don’t, you’re gonna be confused.”


16, 21



Watch movie Sky Walk (2019) it’s about a school paper.


14, 18



Make a gift of Marcus Aurelius' Meditations.


15



Be teachable. If you walk around thinking you know it all, your career and relationships will suffer. Consider how much you have to learn and welcome any opportunity to learn. “Teach me” instead of “I don’t know.”


16



Getting your drivers license will depend not only on government requirements (age, passing tests, etc.) but also maturity and trustworthiness.


14



“A lot” is two words. (You wouldn’t write abunch as one word.) “Its” is a pronoun like his or hers (you wouldn’t write her’s) The contraction “it’s” ONLY means “it is.” They’re / there / their


10



People who have something to prove are dangerous to themselves and others. We are all worthy of love. Remember that.


11, 13, 17, 19, 21



Dress for the job you want, not the one you have. Unless you're a lifeguard. ;)


16, 21



Compassion: Acting with love when faced with another’s suffering.


16



Live a life of dignity and joy.


14, 21



“Human beings are linked, not ranked.” - Gloria Steinem (f*ck the patriarchy)


15



Some days it feels like your world is falling apart, but what's really happening is that it's falling into place. Make good choices. Be kind. Be brave. Trust.


15, 21



You may end up being a big shot, Good for you! But check yourself. The good lord wasn't above washing his friends' dirty feet so please don't feel like you're above any task that needs to be done. Enjoy your success but stay humble.


20



When you’re tired, the next best thing to sleep is a shower.


16



When you apologize don’t offer excuses just acknowledge your mistake, apologize for the consequences, and assure them it won’t happen again.


12, 16, 21



Encourage creativity, science and engineering: Make a craft station / work bench for projects. Fill it with all kinds of art supplies, engineering kits, tools, pegboard, etc. Stock safety equipment like goggles and make sure the area has good lighting. Lots of ideas on Pinterest, etc.


8



1

I hope you never abandon yourself to be loved or accepted by someone else. They’re not getting the real you and you’re missing out on the experience of being loved and accepted just as you are.


16,21



Listen to albums. Two of my favorites came out the very same month: Cowboy Carter by Beyoncé and The Tortured Poets Department by Taylor Swift.


12



Never take friendships for granted. Show up. Reach out. Be there when they need you. Friends are gifts; tend to those relationships with love.


15, 20



When you feel like giving up, rest. But then keep going! So many good things ahead. So many people that are meant to be in your life who you haven’t met yet.


18



“You will use up everything you got trying to give people what they want.” —- Nina Simone


17



Always wear an undershirt with a dress shirt.


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