My favorite version of myself is when I’m not worried about what others think of me. I


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The universe is cheering for you!


14, 16, 18, 20



A hard day’s work is something to be proud of, not afraid of.


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Always wear an undershirt with a dress shirt.


15



"Tough times don't last. Tough people do."


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1

Write your own job description. When you've been around long enough to know what you're good at and can identify what needs in the company you can help with.


21



Police officers and members of the military put their lives on the line to protect us. Be respectful of them and thank them for their service.


9



Bring Christmas cookies to local fire station and police station. (Annually)


6



1

When setting off fireworks...Keep a hose or a bucket of water nearby. Also remember Costco is a great place to buy them!


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Harm springs from excess.


12



My Nana, born around 1913, used to decry “some people think the world owes them a living.” A hundred years later I agree. Nothing worse than entitlement.


13, 15, 21



“People speak of hope as if it is this delicate, ephemeral thing made of whispers and spider's webs. It's not. Hope has dirt on her face, blood on her knuckles, the grit of the cobblestones in her hair, and just spat out a tooth as she rises for another go.” -unknown


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No matter how smart you are or how much you know, you still don’t know everything. ALWAYS be willing to learn and to change your position when faced with new information or perspective.


15, 20



People are insecure. Be mindful of fragile egos (we all have them to a degree.) Avoid implying that people aren't doing a good job.


20



Take heart. There are lots of terrible things in the world - Poverty, disease, injustice, natural disasters...Thankfully, good FAR outweighs the bad: Love, Faith, Art, friendship, healing, creativity, community, innovation, beauty and renewal to name just a few. Focus on the good. Relish in the countless expressions of goodness. Work hard to preserve, protect, and advance them.


18



Life is hard. But it's not so hard you can't figure it out. You're going to be fine. xoxo


11-21



A simple trick to calm your nerves: Name 5 things you can hear right now.


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1

"Love is nothing more and nothing less than relentlessly showing up for your people." - Glennon Doyle


18-21



Look into Rustic Pathways to see the world and do some good.


15



1

Set up a dog agility course in the backyard. Use household items or toys, etc and lots of dog treats for training.


8



ALWAYS pee before you sit down to nurse a baby.


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Make sure you always have Uber gift cards on hand for friends, emergencies or whatever.


15-18



Whatever you choose to do, do it well and there will always be a demand for you. (Quoting Adam Schiff from his book “Midnight in Washington.”


16



Caps Game this year.


11



Everyone gets crushes but if you’re having an imaginary relationship do so with an imaginary person. It’s disrespectful of someone’s dignity to obsess over them. Not to mention your own dignity!


12, 13, 15, 16, 19, 21



Read Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson together.


17



It’s okay to not understand things. Just be sure the only place your ignorance leads you is to education.


15, 19



Plan a neighborhood "Winter Olympics" for snow days. Create indoor and outdoor events.


8



Talk about how choices become habits. Habits can become addictions. Describe how pathways are literally dug into the brain and it's very hard to change them once those paths are made.


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Paying extra for organic isn’t always worth it but I ALWAYS buy organic apples. They taste better and don’t have the pesticides, etc.


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