Three things you cannot change: The past, the truth, someone else.


18



It's very important to me, the idea of the scale of good and bad, of beauty and suffering. I think we should do everything we can to increase the beauty and to take away from the suffering. We have to work hard to tip the scale in the direction of good.


1Infant-14



Watch Ken Burns’ “The US and the holocaust.”


17



When it comes to conflict- what is your part in things?


15, 21



Never pretend o know what you don’t know. But you can bluff your way through a lot of interviews just by doing a 30 minute Google search. Research the company, the industry, its governing body, key terms, awards, criticism, etc. Check out their social media.


17, 19, 21



Plants eat sunlight. Eat mostly plants.


14, 17, 21



“Those who cannot change their mind cannot change anything.” -George Bernard Shaw...... As you live and love and learn, your views will evolve. It takes courage to grow.


16



Healing takes time. You can't rush it. Whether it's your body, your mind or your heart that's hurting... you just have to let it heal in its own time. What you CAN do is to take good care of yourself: eat, rest, stay close to loved ones. Do things that bring you joy. Revel in the smallest steps forward. You'll heal, things will get better. Trust. Love. Serve. Live.


20



Follow your dreams…not your boyfriend’s.


16



Read article about Digital Learning/ transitioning to doing homework on a computer. http://community.today.com/parentingteam/post/it-doesnt-have-to-stay-on-the-screen


10



You’re going to be okay if your relationship ends. You were a whole person before them and you’ll be a whole person after. - therapy Jeff


15, 21



ADHD hack for studying or projects- Leave yourself notes about where you left off.


13, 21



Toast your wife at every occasion.


21



“You matter to me.” Is a beautiful way to express your feelings when a relationship is new.


15, 17, 21



Don’t use a bad word when you can use a good word.


10



Emphasize "First things first." Distraction is always a challenge. Redirect focus to first things first.


5



The opposite of addiction is connection. Genuine connection can take lots of forms.


14, 17, 19, 21



Look up crowd cow for meat delivery.


10



Procrastinating is an Olympic sport for those of us with ADHD. Talk about ways to get “unstuck.” 1. Change your body - move to a different room or take a walk. 2. If you can’t move your body, move your focus. 3. Ask your brain how it’s trying to help you by paralyzing you. 4. Take deep breaths and let go of the shame and self-doubt you feel for getting stuck.


8, 9, 10, 14, 21



Okay algebra and geometry but other than that, spend time practicing addition and subtraction, multiplication and division. That’s 99% of the math you’ll need to know if you’re not going to be an engineer, etc.


10, 14, 15, 18, 21



Marry for character, not just chemistry.


17, 21



Worst thing in the world is spending your life with the wrong person.


21



Make "place value cups" as a rainy day activity and way to teach big numbers. (google, youtube or pinterest)


6-7



Teach them what to do if they hit an animal while driving on the road. (First find out what you’re supposed to do, THEN teach them.)


16



I promise I will never snoop. No matter how curious I am, I will not violate your privacy. But if I ever think you may be in danger I will break any promise and any law I have to in order to keep you safe.


10, 12, 14, 15



Numbing doesn’t work. Let it hurt, let it heal, then it lets itself go.


15,21



It’s your civic duty to vote (including midterms!) Be an informed voter.


16, 18



Check out teen life coach Coaching with Will.


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