Teach car maintenance: Adding air to tires, checking oil, etc.


13-17



Never open someone else's mail, or listen to their conversation, etc. If it's not your business to know, don't snoop.


14-21



make your own latch board / "busy board" for plenty of hours of learning and entertainment. Find lots of great ideas on Pinterest.


1-2



Best song for a good cry: “And so It Goes” by Billy Joel.


15, 21



Watch Parts Unknown together.


14-16



Recruit the kids to help with cleaning the house. All hands on deck "round-ups" are fun and efficient: Round up sippy cups, trash, dirty laundry, give-aways, etc. Time them for maximum enthusiasm: "60 second trash round up...Go!" See who can collect the most trash in 60 seconds.


4



There is so much darkness in the world - keep pushing back against it every way you can. Be a force for good.


14, 16, 21



Don’t let some dumb-sh*t’s overconfidence get you killed.


11, 14, 17, 19, 21



Watch the news together. Local and national. Today Show has both of mornings are easier than evenings.


12, 13, 14, 15



“You rarely have time for everything you want in this life, so you need to make choices. And hopefully your choices can come from a deep sense of who you are.” -Mr. Rogers


15



“Natural” deodorant doesn’t work. Go with trusted brands here. There are times when it’s fine not to look your best, but stinky is never okay.


13, 18



Adult whining is worse than kid whining! We all have unpleasant comments to say in every day life, but do your best to keep snarky comments to yourself. Be mindful of what you're putting out there.


12-16



When you’re getting serious in a relationship here’s something to consider- To what extent is your partner is willing to put others’ needs before their own?


21



Concussion testing - baseline


15



I’m going to keep from telling them how to feel.


4-18



It’s not fair to resent someone for being exactly who they are.


17, 21



I wish you had known my father he was such a good man gentle and loving. One early memory I have of him is that one night in our neighborhood I was hit by a bike - a boy was riding his bike and road up on the sidewalk and ran right into me. The bike hit me in the face with the handlebars and I was knocked down before I knew what happened. My father scooped me up and carried me back home. I was crying the whole time. the funny thing is I don't remember the pain, but I very clearly remember being in his arms and hearing the clip clop clip clop of his shoes. It was an after dinner walk - he was still in his suit from work and he had his loafers on and made a clip clop on the sidewalk I will never forget the feeling of being carried in his arms as he hurried back to the house to take care of me. I was in pain but I knew I would be OK. I miss him very much and I wish you knew him.


15



The only thing that matters is love. When we live with love - for God, for others and ourselves, that is what makes life worth living.


16



I hope you find a partner with who are your most authentic self, and who you love for who they genuinely are.


15, 21



Look up crowd cow for meat delivery.


10



“You don’t get what you deserve. You get what you negotiate.” - name escapes me


15, 19, 21



Follow love and kindness wherever they may take you and you’ll be fine. xoxo


13, 17, 21



People will speak or act in all kinds of unpleasant ways. Stay calm and kind.


14-21



“If you can’t figure something out, figure out how to figure it out.” - Paul Graham


18



Plan out first concert.


11



Let's find little ways to practice self-control and build that muscle.


11



“Beer muscles” is when guys gain a sense of indestructibility, an exaggerated sense of their own strength. Fights and aggressive behavior ensues.


15



Sleep paralysis runs in the family. If you ever feel like you’re awake but you can’t move - don’t panic. It will pass in a minute. It’s just a lag time in your sleep/wake cycle.


20



Resource: the website Ask, Listen and Learn has great material about how to start a conversation about the dangers of under-age drinking. asklistenlearn.org


9



Read (or listen to) A Fragile Stone together.


15