Train for a mini-triathlon together as a family this year.


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Career is so important to your life satisfaction. Do what makes you happy. If you’re really at a loss for what you want to do for work, then go where you’re needed.


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Chemistry is not the same thing as compatibility.


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Do feel like you’re where you’re supposed to be?


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When you’re getting serious in a relationship here’s something to consider- To what extent is your partner is willing to put others’ needs before their own?


21



“When you are not fed love off a silver spoon you will learn to lick it off of knives.” Lauren Eden (poet)


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Always know where the main water shut-off is in your house.


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A friend of mine lost her son in a horrible accident. She wrote “I don’t believe God caused this but I do believe he can redeem it.” That has stayed with me for years. God doesn’t cause suffering... He showers those who suffer with his grace.


18



The secret to getting sinks and surfaces to shine is to dry-buff them after you clean them. Keep a soft clean rag or washcloth around so you can dry fixtures and sinks and counter tops. (They should be cleaning their own bathrooms by this age.)


11



Make "place value cups" as a rainy day activity and way to teach big numbers. (google, youtube or pinterest)


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Check out School of Rock (Vienna) or Bach to Rock.


9



Play to win but play fair. Be a gracious winner. Someone has to lose. Sometimes it will be you. Don’t whine.


10



Most brilliant TED talk I ever saw on living authentically. Step one: decide what you don’t give a f*ck about. Step two: don’t give a f*ck about those things. Always be kind and polite but never be sorry for not giving a $@!#% about stuff you don’t give a $@!#% about.


14, 21



“Your soul is more magnificent, beautiful, and gigantic than you can possibly imagine.” From short story “The Egg” by Andy Weir


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A red brow line is an early sleepiness cue. If you notice the skin around baby’s eyebrows seems red, they’re ready for a nap.


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Be mindful of privilege. Discuss the concept, point it out where you see it.


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1

When you feel like you’re on fire with anger or fear, if you can’t shake it, put that fire to good use.


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Always wear an undershirt with a dress shirt.


15



People don’t abandon people they love, they abandon people they’re using.


19, 21



Forget perfection. Nothing is perfect. No relationship, job, house, or day is perfect. Let go of expectations, be open to the mess.


18



“Dress braver than you feel. Act braver than you feel.” - Ray


17



Always hold the door open for the next person.


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1

Watch “The Sandlot” together. Great story about friendship and showing up for each other.


8



Universal Studios


12-18



Discuss difference between foods that taste good vs. foods that make you FEEL good.


12-14



Great message about not letting people hurt you just because they have painful scars. Their scars aren’t yours to heal, and you deserve to be treated well. Very well. https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPd2beHxu/


15, 21



“We don’t see the world as it is, we see the world as we are. - Prince Harry Or to put it simply, wherever you go, there you are.


12, 15, 21



People want to be heard. Listen to your clients, even when they're upset. Don't make excuses or anything, just let them talk. They mostly just want to be heard. Once they're calm, you can solve the problem.


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If you’re ever in a situation where you’re worried you might need people to believe you in the future, take contemporaneous notes. Write or record what happened, how you responded. Focus on the facts but don’t ignore your thoughts or feelings, include them in your notes. Date and sign it. Keep it safe.


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“Pain that is not transformed is transmitted.” Fr. Richard Rohr


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