Santa not being real https://i.pinimg.com/736x/73/39/2a/73392a10d420aed79074da6511b131a7.jpg


11



Never open someone else's mail, or listen to their conversation, etc. If it's not your business to know, don't snoop.


14-21



It’s very easy to wander into trouble- not usually easy to wander out of it.


12



Don’t Just “go along for the ride” in your relationships. Be clear about your intentions and act accordingly. It’s part of being a man. A GOOD man. Sometimes you just need to have a talk and make sure you’re both on the same page. It won’t $@!#% you!


16, 21



Adopting a “do it right now” mentality has done wonders for my self-discipline. Something on the floor? Grab it right now. Thinking about cooking later? Cook right now. Laundry finished? Put them up right now. Home from a trip? Unpack right then. It’s the small things.


8, 9, 12, 17



Find what you love Do what you love Be what you love Live what you love Love what you love and never look back ... Except to love.


19



Give books. Inscribe them. Just a line or two can turn a good book into a treasure. Great for any occasion.


17



Thinking of asking her out? Want to apply for a job that sounds great? Remember you start off at “No.” You currently do not have a date with her. If you ask and she says no, you’ve lost nothing.


15, 17, 21



Piano


21



They don’t always listen to what you say but I promise the always watch what you do. Stay calm, kind and respectful of yourself and others.


1, 4, 8, 12, 14, 16, 21



Kids Can Make a Difference is a great resource for teaching little kids about poverty and equality.


6-10



When you feel like you’re on fire with anger or fear, if you can’t shake it, put that fire to good use.


14



Some days it feels like your world is falling apart, but what's really happening is that it's falling into place. Make good choices. Be kind. Be brave. Trust.


15, 21



Whatever your first knee-jerk reaction is, it’s not always the right one. Sleep on it.


14, 17, 21



Don’t quit your job until you have another job. Suck it up and make the best out of it.


21



Speak up when it’s called for: Fight injustice, stand up for others, etc. but shut the F up if you’re thinking about offering an unsolicited opinion or advice about anything you’re not personally an expert in.


12, 16



“Pick a problem - any problem,and do something about it. Because to somebody who is hurting, ‘something’ is everything.” -Oprah Winfrey


12-16



Book “Rainbow Relatives” is a great resource to be able to kindly, accurately and sensitively answer their questions about LGBTQ families.


6



Police officers and members of the military put their lives on the line to protect us. Be respectful of them and thank them for their service.


9



Test


1-2



Brennan Manning lectures and books.


19



Shelter, water, Fire, food. (Outdoor survival priorities.)


12, 17



Explain the concept: "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar."


6



Screw “achievement.” Do things you enjoy, share experiences that expand your capacity for joy and compassion. It doesn’t matter if you’re any good, it just matters that you’re in your groove.


16, 21



Apollo 13 and The Martian Great movies about space, science, engineering, etc. Watch together.


12



The whole point of Pride is a recognition and celebration of the fact that you don’t have to be anything other than your truest nature (as defined by you!) No matter gay, straight, bi, trans, etc. Be proud of who you are.) xo


10, 14, 18, 21



Repeat after me: “I am beautiful I am loved I am safe I am free. I don’t need to be like them I just need to be like me.”


7, 8, 9, 13, 16



Give book "50 Things Every Young Lady Should Know" by Kay West.


14



When disciplining remember: First acknowledge the emotion, then address the behavior.


2-4, 13, 15



Action is the antithesis of anxiety.


18