You think you’re smart now but just wait. Your brain is just getting warmed up. Feed it: books, travel, music, mushrooms.


14, 17, 21



Resist the urge to give unsolicited advice. Wait…this entire thing is unsolicited advice!


15



“The Greatest Generation” by Tom Brokaw Listen to audio or read together


14



“Your warmth can be an invitation that unlocks their own.” - Elizabeth Lesser. I love this quote because it’s so true that when you’re kind and genuine, people respond. They take it as a signal that you are a safe place for them to express themselves, which will enable a true connection to be formed. You both win when that happens.


15, 21



Small joys are what gets you through big grief.


14, 18, 21



The moment you lose your cool, you’ve lost.


12,13, 14, 15, 16, 21



The most attractive man in the world is one who brings peace.


21



“Pick a problem - any problem,and do something about it. Because to somebody who is hurting, ‘something’ is everything.” -Oprah Winfrey


12-16



Be on the lookout for people who are not included and reach out. There was a girl in my 8th grade class who was pregnant. Nobody talked to her, including me. Looking back, I regret that deeply. How scared and alone she must have been. She could have used a friend. I wish I would have asked her to sit by me at lunch or talked to her about homework or something.


11-13



Look into YMCA “family camp” in PA.


7



Be extra careful when you’re parking or pulling out of a driveway. It’s hard to see little kids or pets.


16



Help him practice having tense conversations without getting a tone of voice.


15



Send thank you acknowledgemnt for gifts received


1-21



Con-men (or women) appear perfect. They are good-looking, kind, flattering, etc. Most people are good. But be careful of those who seem to be too good.


15



You don’t have to like everyone you go to school with, or work with. You don’t even have to like your family! BUT, you have to treat everyone with respect and kindness. They are worthy of that no matter what your opinion of them may be.


15, 21



My favorite Chinese food order is chicken Kung Pao, shrimp fried rice and beef lo mein. That way we all get a little of each meat.


16



Make a pound of ground beef go further by adding chopped cabbage or mushrooms.


19



“I don’t give a rat’s $@!#% how much respect u garner out in the world if you don’t show respect and love and serve those you love at home.” ____loosely quoted from Glennon Doyle’s ‘Untamed.’


14, 19



Some people have more money than sense. Just because u can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it.


15



“Just because you think it doesn’t mean it’s true. Your brain’s a little b*^tch and likes to lie to you.” -Elyse Myers


13, 21



Kindness is key. Practice being kind even when you don't feel like it. Let's all encourage each other to be kind always. (Or learn how to take a walk or go to our room when we just can't be kind in that moment.)


1-21



Be thankful for opportunities to be of service. It means God is trusting you to help.


8-14



Read up about the National Parks. Pick one to plan a trip to.


9



Test


1-2



1

Bring Christmas cookies to local fire station and police station. (Annually)


6



1

Teach tuck to drive


15



Listen to The Moth (storytelling) together.


15



Soothe a newborn: Swaddle , shushing noise, swing, side/stomach position, suck on a binkie. Read The Happiest Baby on the Block by Dr. Harvey Karp (or watch the video.) It' a life-saver.


Infant