“I don’t know what I think until I write about it.” - Joan Didion


15



The person you have the most electric connection to may not be the ideal choice for a life partner.


15, 19, 21



Some books you loved when you were a toddler: Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, Horton Hatches an Egg, Room on the Broom, Gruffalo.


2-4



Never resist a generous impulse.


9, 12, 19



Appalachian Mountain Club


9-13



The universe is cheering for you!


14, 16, 18, 20



Enrich your mind. Refresh your body. Renew your spirit. - Andrew Weil, MD.


13, 16, 19, 21



Universal Studios


12-18



If you don’t have the words, borrow them. Send a song or a poem. As long as the sentiment is yours, the vowels and consonants don’t need to be.


13, 16. 21



ADHD hack for studying or projects- Leave yourself notes about where you left off.


13, 21



Book “Rainbow Relatives” is a great resource to be able to kindly, accurately and sensitively answer their questions about LGBTQ families.


6



Send thank you acknowledgemnt for gifts received


1-21



1

Learn how to sail together


12-15



A simple trick to calm your nerves: Name 5 things you can hear right now.


5-15



All behavior is communication.


2-6



Marry for character, not just chemistry.


17, 21



Having an opinion is not the same thing as having an informed opinion. If you don't know enough about a subject to speak intelligently about it, keep quiet and educate yourself.


12, 18



If you’re having trouble finding your passion, read biographies and memoirs of people from all walks of life. There are so many worlds out there! You’ll find one that excites you, where your unique talents and skill set can shine.


19



Whether it’s a kid at school or a politician on tv, beware of someone who tries to blame the world’s problems on a minority or some other group of people who are different. It’s a cheap tactic to get people riled up and afraid.


13



Sometimes I think the best way to take care of them is to teach them to take care of others: Littler kids, sick or disabled, those who’ve been left out.


5-7, 1Infant-12



Just let a sweet moment be. There’s a time for jokes or small talk, but sometimes silence is best.


15,21



Keep porn to a minimum. Never at school or work. It's normal to be curious but it's really not a healthy representation of sex. Porn is a business. It's designed to get you off, not to be realistic or educational. That's not the way sex looks or how you're expected to behave. Try O.school instead.


15



Sex isn’t something you “score.” It’s not a competition. Whether the encounter is casual or within a committed relationship it’s something that is shared.


16, 19, 20



Find an activity / sport that they enjoy and support it. Get them outside and in the fresh air.


6-16



Someone else’s success doesn’t subtract from yours. Celebrating with them and encouraging them won’t make you the loser and them the winner. We’re all in this together.


12, 15



Numbing doesn’t work. Let it hurt, let it heal, then it lets itself go.


15,21



“Enthusiasm is the answer to everything.” - Rodrigo’s father


15, 21



Challenge: Memorize and recite The New Colossus by Emma Lazarus.


10



Watch movie Sky Walk (2019) it’s about a school paper.


14, 18