“Be brave. Be resilient. Be kind. Be grateful.” -Hillary Rodham Clinton


12



Help him write a letter to someone in power if he has a question or concern about something he sees going on in the world.


7-11



In social situations it's better to talk too little than too much. Don't over-share with people you're not close to.


15



Just love them. With all your might, them for who they are, and where they are. Forget about the other stuff.


15



Opioids are highly addictive. If possible, stay away from them entirely and definitely not for more than 2-3 days. Manage pain with NSAIDS or Tylenol.


16, 18, 21



Always hold the door open for the next person.


4-14



“You don’t get what you deserve. You get what you negotiate.” - name escapes me


15, 19, 21



Do feel like you’re where you’re supposed to be?


19, 21



Look into YMCA “family camp” in PA.


7



Jump in and help where help is needed. Don’t wait to be asked. Whether it’s clearing dishes at home or friend’s house or tasks at work. It could be something big like solves problem or little, putting paper in the copy machine at work.


15, 18. 21



Consider what you value. Act accordingly.


10, 14, 17, 20



Read maps.


9-14



Trying to avoid the real work makes the task 100 times harder. Do the work.


9, 15, 21



Plan a trip someplace where we can see the Northern Lights.


15



Sex: There's no single way to do it "right" but there are lots of ways to do it wrong. Not being respectful and tender towards your partner is usually at the root of "wrong" ways to do it. Also, there is no rush. You may think all your friends are "doing it." They're not. Take your time.


16



Home is where people love you.


21



SAT prep https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/10/opinion/how-i-learned-to-take-the-sat-like-a-rich-kid.html?referer=http%253A%252F%252Fm.facebook.com%252F


16



Take advantage of all the help that’s available to you! Counselors, advisors, mentors, etc. Then pay it forward when you’re in a position to do so.


17



Best take on parenting: “My kid is never gonna not feel safe with me.”


1, 5, 10, 15



Intimacy is a feeling of safety. To let yourself be seen, touched, known, without defenses.


17, 21



The things we invite to protect us take their job seriously. They will not abandon the watch without a fight to the death. So be careful, very careful about what u invite as armor. Please don’t place your trust in drugs, alcohol, food, gambling, working, disconnecting, etc. Put your trust in that which is creative, honest, loving, beautiful, interesting, inspiring, challenging or peaceful. These things make much better bodyguards, and they will never turn on you.


13, 16, 20



Google earth app means there's always a globe at hand. Point out states, countries or oceans when we hear about them.


4-9



Thinking of asking her out? Want to apply for a job that sounds great? Remember you start off at “No.” You currently do not have a date with her. If you ask and she says no, you’ve lost nothing.


15, 17, 21



Make a pound of ground beef go further by adding chopped cabbage or mushrooms.


19



Marry your hero.


21



Great article on how to explain that bodies AND brains are undergoing rapid changes during adolescence. Re-read and then chat! https://www.upworthy.com/amp/this-mother-s-description-of-her-tween-son-s-brain-is-a-must-read-for-all-parents?c=ufb1


10



“If we could see our prayers we would never stop praying.” - Bunmi Laditan, by way of her angel.


11, 17



You’re gonna be misunderstood a lot. Some people just won’t like you. It’s okay. Wish them well and let it go.


10, 13, 16, 21



Never do two illegal things at the same time. Don’t break the law while breaking the law.


16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21