Wintergreen snow sledding trip.


6



Always hold the door open for the next person.


4-14



1

Plan a trip to New York City to see Hamilton.


15



Start the tradition of First Sunday dinners. On the first Sunday of the month, have a "mini-holiday" dinner. Invite family, friends. Use the nice dishes, make a big meal. Celebrate family.


4-18



Don’t waste your life’s purpose worrying about what other people think about you.


12, 15, 21



Ask them to name 2 current or historical figures that they admire and why (one man one woman).


6-18



Sad but important fact: You’ll never be enough for some people. Never. -Chasten Buttigieg


18



Read biographies. So much to learn and discover by reading about the lives of great men and women. Ducksters.com is a great resource. Amazon and The Learning Well also have great lists. Just Google "biographies for kids."


5-15



Don’t bring a complaint without offering a solution.


17, 19, 21



Girls: does he put in the effort even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable for him?


16, 20, 21



Major regret: focusing too much on being liked (or loved.) You can’t *make* anyone love you. Some people just won’t like you… that’s okay. Make yourself proud. Do YOUR thing. Spend time on what matters to you.


14, 21



Jumper cables 101


14



In the words of Bear Grylls... '”Survival can be summed up in three words - never give up. That's the heart of it really. Just keep trying.”


14, 17, 21



Make sure you always have Uber gift cards on hand for friends, emergencies or whatever.


15-18



Don't say anything out loud that you wouldn't want repeated or overheard. Don't email / text, etc. anything that you wouldn't want forwarded.


11-15



1

The most attractive man in the world is one who brings peace.


21



Violent thunderstorms can be dangerous. Avoid driving or being out in severe weather: car accidents, downed trees, high winds, lightning, flash floods, etc. are all potentially deadly. Don’t take your safety for granted. If the weather is severe, stay sheltered unless you absolutely positively have to be out and about.


12-14, 16, 21



What I most want to teach you this year is that you can always trust me. I will always love you, take care of you and never harm you. You may not always like me, but you can always trust me.


1



“Love is giving your heart without expectation.” - Dan Fogelman


16, 21



Don’t have a clue? (Relationships / career / character, etc.) The solutions can be found in books. READ! Novels, biographies, history, religion, humor, politics, finance, sports, and whatever sparks your interests at the moment!) You’ll learn about the world, and you’ll learn about yourself. READ!!!! (or listen!)


12, 15, 18, 20



“For better or worse means no matter what life throws at us, not no matter what you do to me.” - Brenda Linn


19, 21



Stay put, don’t wonder if lost when we hike.


2, 3, 5



Go to Montgomery County Fair


5-14



Sometimes procrastination is part of the process. Eventually though, doing the thing is easier than stressing over it or hiding from it.


10. 12, 15, 21



Read Moth by Amber McBride. Young adult fiction in verse about grief. Twists and turns.


15



Mackinac Island trip


10



Intimacy is a feeling of safety. To let yourself be seen, touched, known, without defenses.


17, 21



Look up crowd cow for meat delivery.


10



The more you move, the happier you are.


10, 11, 13, 15, 18, 21



Some people think the world owes THEM. They have a backwards. We are servants. How can we best serve?


12-21