“Take the risks. Make the big moves, even if they’re small moves. Forge ahead with your lives in any and every direction that moves you. I’m asking you to be fearless.” - Rebecca Pearson (character from NBC tv drama ‘This Is Us’)


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Philippians 4: 11-13


12



Read Big Magic by Liz Gilbert. Re-read every 5-10 years.


19, 21



“If you want to be holy, be kind”. -Frederick Buechner


14, 19, 21



A simple blessing to silently pray over someone: “May he (she) be healthy, May he be safe. O Lord bless him with peace and joy.” Pray for people you know, for strangers on the elevator, for teachers, world leaders, friends or foes, etc. It’s one way to make the world a better place, and it turns your heart closer to God.


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Here’s one definition of a saint: Someone who isn’t a jerk, doesn’t complain or whine when they’re sick or in pain.


15, 19



Respect people’s privacy. No snooping, eavesdropping, peeping, etc.


11



Always hold the door open for the next person.


4-14



Read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe together.


8



“Pay yourself first” means save before you spend. You never know when you’ll need to tap into savings, so build it up early and heartily.


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Don’t waste your time with anyone who doesn’t love you for exactly who you are. Move on, because there is someone out there who will!


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“Where you stand depends on where you sit.” It means your personal situation informs your stance on issues. Try to imagine how you’d vote if you were sitting at a less privileged place.


15, 21



Be thankful for opportunities to be of service. It means God is trusting you to help.


8-14



Give him a copy of The Secret Lives of Great Composers by Elizabeth Lunday.


14



Sailing lessons.


14



Parent the way you want your children to behave. Compassion, patience. Loving.


1, 2, 3, 4



A hard day’s work is something to be proud of, not afraid of.


8, 12, 15, 20



Set up a dog agility course in the backyard. Use household items or toys, etc and lots of dog treats for training.


8



Some men think if they just act like a total $@!#% then people will assume they’re uber intelligent. Just because someone is scary it doesn’t mean he’s scary smart.


15, 21



Read (or listen to) A Fragile Stone together.


15



Be willing to say “I don’t know” if you don’t know! Don’t just make stuff up.


15, 20



Focus on being interesting (and genuinely interested) rather than focusing on being popular.


11, 13, 17, 21



“Parents detect fake friends. Kids detect fake relatives and friends detect fake love.” - I forget who’s grandma said it.


14



If you’re having trouble finding your passion, read biographies and memoirs of people from all walks of life. There are so many worlds out there! You’ll find one that excites you, where your unique talents and skill set can shine.


19



Sometimes it just takes a while to catch on. I had to watch Game of thrones 3 or 4 times before I could keep track of all the characters and subplots. Record your lectures so you can replay them a few times.


13,15,19



Be mindful of privilege. Discuss the concept, point it out where you see it.


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1

“Your soul is more magnificent, beautiful, and gigantic than you can possibly imagine.” From short story “The Egg” by Andy Weir


1Infant-21



Read "A Wrinkle in Time" (me too.)


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When choosing a partner I think it's less important that you both "believe" the same things and more important that you VALUE the same things and share the same priorities.


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