Watch “The Sandlot” together. Great story about friendship and showing up for each other.


8



Learn what triggers you. It’s probably just two or three things. Work on your issues


14, 18. 21



Some people have more money than sense. Just because u can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it.


15



I highly recommend you read The Crane Wife by CJ Houser.


15, 17, 19, 21



Don’t quit your job until you have another job. Suck it up and make the best out of it.


21



Failed? Lift yourself up, or live there. You know the work you need to do, be it physical, mental, emotional or spiritual, etc. So do it. Do the work. The only bitterness in failure comes from not having the guts to get back up again.


12, 16, 18, 20, 21



Come and go in peace.


12, 15, 21



Pick a project on Instructables.com and work on it together this winter.


7



Ask the question “What are you doing when you feel most like yourself?”


16



Just let them be who they are. Enjoy getting to know them.


1-21



When it comes to conflict- what is your part in things?


15, 21



Put your purse, (wallet,bag, phone, or shoe) in the backseat with the baby. Unattended babies die every day and it’s my worst nightmare.


Infant-3, 21



Have them practice making trade offs based on their financial priorities. For example: Pedicure or movie?


9



Sometimes, no matter how great a thing is it can’t make up for what it’s not.


14, 19, 21



Pedestrians get hit all the time. Be aware when you’re driving OR walking. Wear reflective gear if walking at night. Stay off your phone when driving OR walking.


15



“Courage is cheaper than Channel. It works better too.” - Scott Galloway


14, 15, 16, 21



No dating while unstable. Being responsible for someone’s heart means being prepared to treat them with respect at all times, regardless of whether they make you angry, jealous, annoyed, rejected, humiliated or heartbroken. If (a) you don’t think those things could happen or (b) think there’s a reasonable chance you’d lose your temper, then you’re not ready. And that’s okay! You’ll get there in your own time. In the meantime stay off the market.


12, 14, 16, 18, 21



Conspiracy theories... Where do I begin? They’re pure sh*t. They are fueled by fear and ignorance, usually peddled by people who have an agenda.


12, 16



Start the tradition of First Sunday dinners. On the first Sunday of the month, have a "mini-holiday" dinner. Invite family, friends. Use the nice dishes, make a big meal. Celebrate family.


4-18



If you ever borrow someone’s car, return it with a full tank of gas.


20



Read "You Can’t buy a Dinosaur with a Dime" by Harriet Ziefert. Teaches kids about earning money through work, making choices, even paying taxes!


9



Visit the Grand Canyon together


18-21



Paint rocks with pictures or kind messages and find public places to leave them where they can hide in plain site. See RockOurWorldArt.


8-11



Try using “No doesn’t tell me your needs” when toddler / little kid disobeys. “Were you trying to be funny? Do you need a minute?”


3



Give your all on the job, from your first day to your last day there. If you’re all caught up on your work help someone else with theirs.


17, 21



“Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as remaining where you no longer belong, or where you’re unable to be yourself and thrive.” Mandy Hall (paraphrased.)


21



Japanese multiplication (counting lines.)


8



In the wise words of Taylor Swift, you don’t have to forgive or forget in order to move on. You can just…move on.


15, 21



I hope you become more of yourself with every passing year. I love you so.


21



Change the furniture around in your dorm, apartment or bedroom every once in a while. It’s an easy way to break up a timeline like for a holiday a season or after a breakup, etc.


18